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While at Saks, in the makeup department, could not help but stop and take a look at a new eye cream called, Freeze 24/7.
(didn’t hurt, the rep was a cute guy, waving us down!)
Anyway…I digress…
So what is this, new cream??? He said, give me your hand. He turned it over to reveal my line strewn palm. He slathered some cream on, and Wow! the lines plumped up and disappeared.
Then he grabbed my girlfriend, and put some on her eyes,(you know, where the crows feet are).
I snapped this before and after. (yes, this is just my little camera snapping a photo!)
 Before |
 After - with a visible difference! |
The difference was visible. (Click to enlarge the pictures so you can see!)
So, I don’t know anything about how long it lasts..probably for a day, like the name says.
Personally, did not buy any, but just thought it was very cool and thought I pass it along to all of you!
If anyone has tried it, write us a note under comments! Thanks~

Freeze 24-7 Miracle Kit
Available at Saks.
Hi! JoJami here reporting LIVE from the streets of New York City! Looking for Fabulous Women over 40, what they are wearing and where they are shopping! Click on the image to enlarge them.

JJ: Hi there! Oh my gosh you look so fabulous, where are you from?
FAF(Fab After Forty): I’m from Bethesda, MD.
JJ:Where did you get that gorgeous purse?
FAF: Paris
JJ: Figures… I love your entire look.. the slim grey pants, over sized sunglasses, leather gloves and a fun red purse!
FAF: Thank you!

JJ: Hi there! You look great, can I take your picture? Where are you from?
FAF: I do? I’m from Atlanta.Why do you think I look great?
JJ: I love your grey hair, and how it’s cut so chic and your updated glasses and pretty colorful scarf that brightens up your coat!
FAF: Oh, thanks! Gotta go, the light is green!

JJ: Hi there! Amazing coat!
FAF: Got it at Neiman’s.
JJ: Thanks for the tip!
JJ; Oh your black and white coat is so different. Where did you get it?
FAF: London
JJ: What brand is it?
FAF: Jaeger of London, but they carry it at Saks too.
JJ: GREAT! I’m on my way!
JJ:Can I take your photo? You look adorable!
FAF: SURE!!! You’ve made my day!
JJ: I just love your entire ensemble, your Burberry hat, Ralph Lauren coat, Sigrid Olsen handbag and your Tory Burch Flats look so comfortable and chic!
FAF: Oh, thank you. (with a hint of southern accent)
JJ: Where are you from?
FAF: Richmond, VA.
JJ: You represent your state well! Have a great day!
Could the perfect diet really include red wine and chocolate?
Quite possibly,according to researchers in the Netherlands and Melbourne.
To find out more about this new theory and to read many other interesting boomer related posts, visit the Blogging Boomer’s Carnival.
This week it is being hosted by The Boomer Chronicles.
The little black dress… It’s a girl’s best friend! Loyal and true it comes to the rescue when you’re not sure what to wear. Always right, this classic wardrobe staple, makes you look instantly chic and never goes out of style.
If you don’t own one or feel fabulous in the one you’ve been wearing, then it’s time to buy a new one. Here are:
7 Top Tips for How to Buy and Wear the Perfect Little Black Dress
1. Look for a Dress with a Touch of Sizzle
The beauty of the ‘Little Black Dress’ lies in its simplicity; so make sure the one you choose has clean lines, not a lot of fussiness and frou frou. Do, be sure however, that your dress has a touch of sexiness, like elegant slit up the side, a deep V back, a lacy hemline or some sheer netting across the bust or arms for example. Details like buttons, sashes, cuffs, etc done in touches of velvets, silk tulle and other sumptuous fabrics will create a very rich look.
For example, this Anne Klein black silk dress is flattering to most women. Reminiscent of bygone Hollywood, it has a wonderful deep V-neck halter top and a tied waist with a long silk sash. The skirt is softly pleated and falls just below the knee. This dress can hide a woman’s flaws while subtly enhancing the female form.
2. Make Sure it Fits you Like a Glove
Fit is key to looking like a million in your little black dress. Don’t try to squeeze into a tight dress thinking it will make you look thinner. It will only make you look bigger. Throw away size tags and buy a dress that skims the body without pulling. A lined dress will smooth your figure and Spanx helps give you that sleek look too!
We think this dress hits the mark to show off a woman’s curves without being too sexy. It has a v neck which flatters the neckline and chest area with a cinched waist and softly pleated skirt. It flatters the pear shape body very nicely and with its longer length–hitting just slightly below the knee, most women can wear this dress beautifully!
3. Be Sure the Dress Plays up Your Best Features
For many of us 40+ teensy spaghetti straps and strapless dresses are not flattering. They highlight that midlife flabby flesh we often carry on our arms and underarms. Take a look at your best features and decide what else might work for you. V-necks flatter most body types, but if you have a really long neck, a rounded neckline will look good too. If it’s your legs that still look great, you can go a tad shorter on the skirt. If it’s your waist that‘s still looking wonderful, show that up with a great accent there like a ribbon tie or belt. Wherever you want the eye to go is where you want the detail to be!
For example, this simple, classic, black dress is a good one if your best features are well defined arms or a tiny waist. We love the capped sleeves and cinched waist. Moreover, the length hits just below the knee, which is a flattering stopping point for most figures.
4. Don’t Over-accessorize
Since a little black dress is like a blank canvas you can change the feel this way or by the way you accessorize. But be very careful to not over do it or you’ll detract from the look. The days of matching earrings and necklaces are over. It is much better to just wear a pair of great earrings with a smashing up-do, or a single item like a beautiful pin. Satin gloves with pearls will give you that timeless Audrey Hepburn look.
If you choose a lace dress like this, you won’t need to add much jewelry. There is a lot going on with this dress, so you would want to keep it simple with just earrings and perhaps a single bracelet.
5. Update your dress with Shoes
Shoes are the easiest way to update your dress and a great way to show off your personality. If you want to stray from the classically elegant black pump, try bright red heels, or leopard or metallic beauties.
TIP: Ankle straps on a shoe are not for everyone. Depending on your size, they can cut off your leg and make you look shorter. This woman is able to pull off the ankle strap, since she is tall with slim legs and ankles. (By the way, we like this dress too, since it is flattering on most body types and the fabric drapes nicely to make it comfortable to wear.)
6. Wear the Right Hose
Choose either a nude or black hose- ultrasheer to be sure! Fishnet stockings are a great way to add some glamour. You can go hoseless in the summertime if your legs still look good, and if you wear a self tanner. And, if you choose to wear sandals definitely go for the bare look! P.S. The right shade of “nude,” is one shade darker than your natural color. Avoid buying your hose that are dramatically too light or too dark. It should look as though you don’t have any hose on.
7. Top it Off with the Right Handbag
Yes, there is a right one! It’s this season’s favourite ~ a slim little clutch to tuck under your arm while you are sipping on your favourite cocktail. Your bag should not match your shoes exactly, but should have the same feel. Black always works and patent leather is in right now, but what’s even better, especially this season is a dazzling jewel toned clutch… a great way to give your little black dress a little oomph!.
You have asked for it, we are bringing it to you… All you petites out there (5’4 or under)
Our new podcast is called:
Petite Perfection~ How to Look Chic No Matter What Your Size
Don’t miss this opportunity to find out all the tips, tricks, secrets and great resources, on dressing for your size when The Glam Gals, Deborah and JoJami, chat with the Petite Fashionista, Christa Jean MacLellan.
To get your copy visit our podcasts page.
On a recent trip to the local Home Show, there was a booth with some very perky ladies touting the wonders of permanent hair removal.

I (JoJami) had eyed all those ads and dismissed them thinking, Oh, I don’t need that. But recently I started doing Yoga at 6:00 a.m. and found that even though most of us are sleep-walking through the exercises, I wasn’t happy with my underarms not being as clean shaven as I would like…not to mention, the bikini area… (Oh my gosh, I hate it when I have to shave that area!)
So, I decided to look into the process and be the first of all my girlfriends to try it.
According to Bridget at Brandywine Skin and Laser Centre, cutting edge hair removal salons use a top of the line machine called a Diode Laser which has two types of hair removal settings: Standard, and the newer Pain Free. It’s an upgrade from the old machines that had just the standard setting. After asking around, I found out that one of my friends had the standard hair removal before Pain Free had come on the scene and said, “It hurt like hell”.
So I definitely wanted to go with the new machine. I just got back from my first treatment. Bridget was super quick. I had and I had both areas done and was out of there in a jiffy. There was definitely no pain involved (in fact, it even tickled) and I’m already seeing that there’s less hair I have to shave. So why would they even make the new laser with the the standard removal setting option? Apparently, there are some places, like the spot above your lips, where the pain free one won’t work- Ouch!
I will keep you posted on the results of future treatments and if it is really permanent.
Do you have a nightly ritual, when going to bed at night?
One of mine (JoJami) is slathering yummy rich creams on my face, hands and feet before jumping into the covers!
With the dry winter air you can quickly start feeling like a dried up prune, so here are our favorites to keep your skin plump and youthful!

Shea butter is known for its moisturizing effects, but can get a bit greasy. This version is very smooth with out the oil slick. It’s not heavily scented which makes it perfect to use anytime.

If you’re not using a night cream on your eyes, your skin is missing out! This one is a good one. It really will does help with fine lines and puffiness.

The older I get the dryer my feet get. That’s why I love this lavender foot cream that whisks you off in your dreams to Provence! I pile it on just before bed, then throw on a pair of workout socks (to heat up my feet and infuse the cream into my rough skin) and awake in the morning with smooth soft tootsies. Sweet Dreams!
If you have a favorite ritual, please write and share it with us! info@fabulousafter40.com
Are you gearing up for the holiday parties? Are you starting to think about what you are going to wear?
In last week’s newsletter, about the importance of the “little black dress”, we mentioned that accessories are one way to show off your individuality. But buying the latest it bag can be expensive, and not to mention wasteful, if your only going to use it for a party or two.
So why not just rent one? There is a great site out there called Bag, Borrow or Steal. www.bagborroworsteal.com
Here you can have fun fantasizing what it would feel like to carry something a little more wild, or expensive than you’re used too!
How would you like it if you could just get on-line and for between $60 to $120.00 , you can have a genuine Channel clutch in your mailbox a few days latter!

They even have a section that shows what the stars are carrying and then you can search to see if they have one for you to borrow!
For example, here is Terri Hatcher with a pretty little purse from Moschino. Yes, it’s for rent too!

They also have expanded their site to include jewelry as well, but we think they do purses the best!
We think, why fake it, when you can have the real thing.