Here’s what I have been talking about. These might work for you, but for me, too grandma. I’m not one for bows and frilly stuff and I  like a bit more of a heel.

These Ron White Zoey pumps are a little too proper for my taste and lifestyle, but maybe these are perfect for you?

I’ve always had a soft spot for slingbacks. There is something really sexy about them, especially when they also have a super pointy toe. That pointy toe really elongates your legs and the gold color acts like a neutral and goes with everything.

Don’t know if you noticed, but the heel is silver, so you have that color block effect of gold/copper/silver which makes these J Renne Sophie Pumps very modern.

Here’s a more dramatic version of that color block shoe I was mentioning. This New Egizia Slingback Sandal comes with a higher heel too. You’ve got a platform and a large heel on which to spread out your weight, so if you do prefer a heel, this one is better than a skinny minnie one.

Tip: Keep your pedicure understated, even neutral with this shoe. Can you visualize red toes with this shoe? It would be too much and compete with the shoe.

Remember great style is a balancing act.

It’s summer but these winter white shoes are a great choice. White shoes haven’t been in for a long time but suddenly they are back and that’s a good thing because they look really fresh.

I prefer this off white shade. White-white can be so stark that they often make the shoes look cheap. These Diane von Furstenberg Taite Sandals are a great all-round practical shoe that will go with everything and any color.

I really like these. I know I was complaining about high heels but again, it ‘s the skinny ones that hurt your feet. These heels are chunkier and more balanced, so they’re more comfy.

I love this caramel color that looks so good on your foot whether you are tanned or not, and that touch of orange just sings summer. The tropical weave on this Aerin Toiny Sandal is classy and relaxed.

Here’s a block heel shoe that is a sleek and sophisticated choice for the woman who wants a really minimum height and total comfort. These Naturalizer Xavier pumps would be a great choice for the office.

Do you see the little crystals on the block heel? Kind of different isn’t it?

This Delman Covet Pump satin pump is on the dressy side for sure, but I think it would make an excellent mother of the bride or groom shoe. That is a day when a woman really wants comfort more than anything, but she also wants to look memorable. These shoes will do the trick.

If you want to add a little bit of a casual rock n’ roll vibe to your outfit then these block heels are a great choice. The studs give these Marvin K Demi Sandals a slighty tough look. It’s always nice to add a little edginess to an outfit that is too perfect because perfect is boring. These are fun.

Quality shoes speak volumes and these Cole Haan Minetta Sandals are a good example. They’re casual but rich looking which is the look many stylish women over 40 are aiming for.