Fashion Inspiration! How do I wear those half booties?

We recently had a question from a reader:

Dear Glam Gals,

I love those little half booties that were so popular last fall. I see that they are coming out again this year and would love want to buy a pair, but just do not know what  or how to wear them? HELP!

Karen G.~ Minnesota.

Hi Karen,

Your timing is perfect! We just saw this add for the DKNY and here they are showing the same shoe with lots of  different looks!

This ad from DKNY is an excellent example of how to look updated!

Here is why we like them:

Layering with cropped straight pants:

Great casual look, could do it with flats too! (DKNY)

Add a vest! (try one, you might like it!)

Simple white blouse (untucked)

Flat front straight cropped pants

vest. (Might want try to find one longer, if you want to hide hips)

.(DKNY)


Cute for work or out to dinner:

Back again, this layered look was popular last fall thanks to Michele Obama.

Try a skinny belt and make sure you have a pair of those opaque tights. (the ones with patterns can make your legs look fat, so keep it simple with solid colors unless you have super skinny legs)

(DKNY)


Slim Balloon pant:
We are seeing a huge comeback this fall with the balloon pant. Beware this style does not work on all body types. However, if it is well cut, on the slim side, like this one, it might look great on you! Can be a fun style to try. Not so great with flats though…. (DKNY)
Scarf Action!:

Adding a long skinny scarf is an easy way to go from drab to fab! These tight, just to the ankle jeans have a little “poof” at the ankle that can actually be flattering! (DKNY)

This soft jacket  pulls the entire look together:

For a modern twist on the navy or grey blazer, try one that is made of a soft fabric. Both comfortable and chic it will knock you up on the style scale! (DKNY)

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What are the rules for co-ordinating your purse and shoes?

Here’s a great style question from one of our readers:

“It now seems to be the style to not have your shoes and purse match.What and how do you determine what to match them with?The old way was to have back,brown,navy,or red if you where feeling wild and they always matched your purse..Some pointers on what is in now.”

~Barbara P.

Your purse and shoes do not have to match but they should blend in style and weight.

Deciding what purse to go with your shoes can be tricky. Some women buy only one purse and wear it with everything. Others collect purses and change them around all the time. It all depends on your needs and lifestyle, but in general your purse  needs to be of  high quality and the size should fit your style and personality.

This is a photo of fellow blogger Susan Tabak who always has great fashion sense!  See how the colors all blend and her purse does not stand out, but pulls her simple outfit together!

Here are a few basic rules to remember:

Play with mixing colors, but keep one color neutral :

If you have gray shoes, you can have fun with a colorful bag. This look is more for work because of the stiffer, dressier bag. The slouchy bag in front  with the gladiator sandals are better for a casual look because they are both less formal.

An outfit made up of  solid colors will get a lift from a purse with some color or texture :


This simple outfit is perked up with these purple flats and a snakeskin clutch.

Don’t do a stiff purse with a casual outfit:

If you like to wear casual or soft flowing clothes your handbag should match the look. This purse is too boxy and stiff for this sporty outfit.


This softer,relaxed hobo style purse is much better with this outfit~

Soft look with a soft style purse
Even a formal purse can work with casual  shoes.

This formal channel style bag works with these flats, since the flats are shiny and have a dressy look to them.

Coordinate your hardware:

It will be  easier to make choices and you will feel more pulled together if you keep your shoes, jewelry and handbag hardware all the same finish. (e.g. silver jewelry, silver, buckles on shoes, silver zipper on purse)

3 bags 1 shoe


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How to update your tiny bracelet to a chunky one!

Are you still wearing tiny bracelets? Here is a quick tip on how to wear that chunky jewelry that is so popular right now!
If you like this bracelet it is on Sale now at our Stella and Dot jewelery store! Some pieces are up to 50% off!

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Christmas in July…My favorite things at Marshalls!

Getting a wheel of a deal while off-price shopping!

I know so many women that have found “treasures” at off-price stores like T.J. Max and Marshalls. So, I thought it would be fun to tell you about what I (JoJami) found on my recent trip to Marshalls, over the weekend.

For me personally, I find the clothes shopping at these types of stores overwhelming. You have to be a very patient and talented lady to pick through the racks of clothes to come up with “pearls” in the waves of mix matched sea kelp! Yes, I have had my luck at finding the odd skirt or workout top, over the years but over all, it is not the clothes but the awesome section of soaps, exotic foods and home appliances, that I go ga ga over!

Moreover, there are tons of gift ideas to grab now and put away until Christmas and some for personal use now!

1)Pamper me, I’m all over it… The Soap Section.

These stores have awesome sections that are very organized with the most beautiful and lovely soaps, face creams and other products that pamper. Every few months I go in and head straight for the soap section to replenish my stash. For $3.99 I can splurge and have a huge bar of the most lovely lavender or Almond scented soap to enjoy in my shower or tub! They always have a great selection of different scents, so you just have to put your sniffer to work and find the ones that call to you!

2) Feel like taking a trip to Europe, check out the exotic food section.

When I am ready to replace my extra virgin olive oil, this is where I go. You will get a great price on it and while I’m there I love their jams from England and other exotic places.

3) Bring out your inner cook, Kitchen gadgets and more…

The other day, I needed to replace my tea kettle and get another mixing bowl…so what better place than their home section to do so. I found a gorgeous stainless steel Cuisinart kettle for less than $24.00! Meanwhile, I found a great cutting board to replace my old beat up one at home!

4) The Shoe section (Need we say more???)

Actually this section is pretty much a hit or miss as well. To this day, one of my favorite pair of shoes came from this section, but you have to be super picky or you will end up with one more pair of shoes that will be collecting dust.

5)Jet setting this summer? You gotta see Travel section:

This section must be new, since I have not really seen it before, but I loved it! At my store in Wilmington, Delaware, there was an entire kiosk filled with all sorts of travel goodies, like travel pillows, plastic compression bags, even those “fuzzy” hangers that are all the rage!  The prices were all discounted on these hard to find items, that you don’t want to have wait to pick up at the airport!

So, we want to hear from you… What are  some of your favorite things you get at discount stores?

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What are you wearing to bed, this summer?

We girls all talk fashion all the time, but when it comes to what we are wearing in the privacy of our own bedrooms, well it is certainly not something we usually compare notes on!

With record heat and if you are prone to a hot flash or two, what to wear to bed this summer, is a big question!

Last week I went outlet shopping with a friend and of course there are always rows and rows of nightgowns, p.j’s and of course the sexy nighties…

Aaah, these are much better!!

I feel like a Granny in these stiff cotton print P.J's~

Just for fun I tried on a really dreadful pair of pajamas.

Tips for finding a new sleeping outfit:

1) Touch the fabric first, if it is soft and comfortable that is good!

2) Try finding styles with a low v-neckline, these are usually most flattering!

3)Stay away from crazy patterns, they will be too stimulating! At night you want to put on something that is soothing~

4)Make sure to try them on. I usually go a size larger, so that they are comfortable!

One of favorite brands are Cosabella, however they can be on the pricey side.

Here is a pair that are fun:

Cosabella is a wonderful brand, very comfortable and a better choice than ugly flannels!

If you are feeling dumpy in your night time jammies… run out and try to find a pair that you will be comfy and feel a little sexy in too!  (JoJami  at the Neiman Marcus Last Call outlet, in Limerick, PA)

What are you wearing at night? Let us know by commenting below!

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A Shopping Trip to the Outlets can be Fab or a Flop, find out more!

Are you making any of these shopping mistakes?

Do you love outlet shopping?  If so, beware… you might think you are saving money, when in reality you are spending more and coming home with nothing that satisfies your urge to have something wonderful to wear!

Here are some of the top mistakes women make when shopping at an outlet or large discount store!

1) Shopping with no idea or goal on what you want to buy.

If you go to an outlet with no idea what you need to buy, it can wipe out wallet. Moreover, you will get to the store and probably feel totally overwhelmed. Instead, before you leave, go to your closet and see what you need. Then make a list and take it with you!

2) Getting off track.

Once you decide what you are looking for (e.g. Is it a new casual outfit? Or a new dress for an upcoming event?) go into the appropriate store, find the sales person  and tell her what you are looking for.  That will help you stay focused on what choose to take into the dressing room.

3) Buying ANOTHER black item!

Unless your goal is to buy something in black, we find most women over 40 tend to have way too much black  in their closet already. Wearing less black is super hard to do, but the rewards are great! By avoiding buying anything black, it forces you to add something colorful to your closet which make you feel like a million bucks!!

4) Trying on all Colors

Beware  that not all colors suit all skin types. You need to be aware which colors look best on you and stick with only those. If you stick with one “season”, then all your clothes will mix in match in the future! If you pick items  from all sorts of different color categories, you will actually limit the outfits you will be able to mix and match in the future.  (For more help with this, contact your local image consultant for a color consult! It will be totally worth it!!!)

5) Letting those SALE tags seduce you into buying!!

You may be tempted to buy things when you see all those wonderful “discount” prices…but don’t do it!  Instead, really slow down and ask yourself these 3 questions:

~Do I already own something similar?

~Do I love the fit, color and style of it?

~Is it something that I will be able to wear and it makes me feel special? (this is the most important question to ask yourself!)

If you put limits on what you buy, it will help you make a better buying decision! Most women find that they buy “safe” items or just basics…like another pair of jeans or simple t-shirt. If you are going to an outlet, now is the time to find that special piece to add to your closet! Don’t blow your money on things that you can pick up just anywhere!

6) Not trying things on!

We’ve all done it. You are at the counter and you pick up  that last little item and just throw it in the pile without even bothering to try it on, because of course the price is “just too good to pass up”! This is a big mistake. We have found more times than not, when we go and try it on, we really didn’t want or need it.

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Are Your Spring Shoes updated? Check out this Special Event!

Attention:

Fabulous After 40 gals in the Philadelphia area…

If there is one item in the closet that must be super comfortable and yet fashionable, it has to be your shoes!

Join JoJami for, Shoes, Chews and Chocolates, too! Thursday, May 20th, 6:30-8:30 pm

Do you have your favorite or have you updated your  “go to” shoe for Spring?

Well, if you are ready to perk up your shoe wardrobe and get the tips of what will look best on you, join me for my upcoming Private Shoe Event!

Shoes, Chews and Chocolates, too!

We are going to eat, sip and try on shoes at Philadelphia’s most unique shoe store! All shoes are from unique European designers, that you won’t see in department stores!

Come join Glam Gal, JoJami Tyler, for this Special Shoe event!

When: Thursday, May 20th

Time:  6:30-8:30 pm

WhereHead Start Shoes

126 South 17th Street

Philadelphia, PA, 19103

Sign up now, since space is limited to the first 20 ladies!

We will be giving away goodie bags for all!

There will even be a chance for one lucky lady will win a  $250.00 Gift Basket!


T


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Do you ever get Buyer’s remorse?

Have you ever been shopping and then on the way home, you start getting that guilty feeling?

Have you ever gotten home and hid your purchase, or vow to take it back the next day?

Did you know that you are not alone?

How do I know this?  Because it happens to me and lots of other women I talk to every day!!

Buyer’s Remorse comes in so many forms…

  • We go to  SALE and come home with 3 of the same tops in 3 different colors and wish we hadn’t.
  • You’re at a fun special Girl’s night out and you buy 4 different purses in all different styles. Why?
  • You are at the store and think, “I have been looking for ______and here it is, I have to have it!” You get home and ask yourself, “What was I thinking?”

Recently, I (JoJami) experienced buyer’s remorse. With spring here, I went looking for a great looking new flat shoe that I could throw on and run around in;one that was stylish yet, comfortable.

While shopping with my husband one day, I tried on a pair from a store that I do not usually shop in.

My husband took one look and said, “Those don’t look like you AT ALL!!”  Enough said. I certainly did not buy them, and I was sure glad I didn’t. A few days later I was in Philadelphia at one of my favorite shoe stores (Head Start Shoes) and found a gorgeous pair that fit the bill!  They were stylish  and comfortable, but  there was one problem…they were expensive!

I bought them anyway, justifying the fact that I had tried others on in the past that never seemed right, and kept telling myself that these were just perfect.

OH BOY…..I felt so guilty all the way home!  Just Terrible!! Buyer’s remorse!

I felt like maybe I had made a mistake…but I eventually got over it.

SO…the moral of this story is:

We all have times when we are not feeling totally confident in our choices and we start to experience buyer’s remorse. If you can just hold off returning an item for a day or two when you are feeling less anxious and less guilty, then then you can decide if the purchase is really right. After a little time I decided my expensive flats were really comfortable and stylish, and now I am a happy Glam Gal!

I adore my new flats and every time I put them on, I feel comfortable in them and they go with all my clothes. They were worth the splurge because I wear them all the time and do not feel the need to buy anything else, and I will have these shoes for several years to come!

The bottom line is:

  • Now that we are over 40, we need to stop shopping like we did when we were young.
  • We need to buy less quantity and buy better quality things that we love and adore!
  • Also, don’t be alarmed when you finally buy something that you really like and it is a little more expensive than you usually spend, that you feel bad about it at first.
  • If you buy the right things, you will be happy in the end.
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Casual style~ perk it up with stripes!

Stripes are a hot trend this summer and can still be age appropriate! photo credit:The Satorialist

With an upcoming trip to Paris on the books, I (JoJami) am beyond excited to be able to report to you all, first hand, how women over 40 are dressing in one of my favorite places on earth! (Check back in May for pictures and updates!)

From what we’ve been reading in all the fashion magazines, it looks like the classic blue and white stiped t-shirt is going to be a hot trend this summer! So I’m planning on making sure to pack one in my suitcase!

One of my guilty pleasures is reading a blog called Habitually Chic, that is written by an interior designer who loves to travel.  Here she has put together some great pictures that might help inspire you to re-invent this classic look into your wardrobe!

I LOVE the way the woman on the left  has layered her stripes with a mustard jacket and baby blue scarf. (Don’t miss the wonderful orange watch she has thrown on for another pop of color and the hip aviator sunglasses!) I’m imagining that this woman has on nice flats or loafers with her kakis and she’s totally comfortable and feeling FAB! However, beware of this high waisted tucked in look for those who have wide hips. See how the jacket is hitting her right at her waist. You could do the same look, but keep the top untucked and then make sure the sweater is longer.

The women on the right are doing the easy, edgier version of stripes… they threw on their skinny black jeans, boots or heels and headed out the door!!!

If you want to try this look, but don’t want to spend a fortune, head on over to Target or J. Crew and try one on. Both stores have a few styles at great prices.

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Do you have a fabulous wardrobe?

Check out The Glam Gals, 5 tips to make shopping easier!

If you are like many women after 4o you are thinking that things in life might not have turned out exactly how you planned it.

But no fear, you can still be happy, just read this weeks Blogging Boomers Carnival, our weekly dose of all topics Boomer related written by some of the top Bloggers out there!

So, if your life is not what you wanted you can at least take control how you look! After all, YOU are the one who buys your clothes!!

Here are 5 tips to think about when you go shopping so that you can turn your wardrobe into one that includes stylish clothes you love!

  1. Get your closet cleaned out. If you have old clothes that don’t fit and are out of style, make sure they are not clogging up your closet, you will want to make room for the good stuff!
  2. Make a list of your wish list and of what you need
  3. Wear comfortable shoes and make up (Looking your best when you shop makes it more fun and you will feel better about how you look in the mirror!)
  4. Have on your most updated outfit. Then when you go to buy something new, it needs to be as nice as what you already have or better!  That way you set the bar higher and will not be tempted to buy something just mediocre.
  5. Don’t feel like you have to buy something everytime you go shopping. Feel free to just window shop, try on and then go home and think about it. Too often we get home with “impulse” buys that we don’t really need or an item that doesn’t go with anything in our closet. Be super picky about what you buy!!!
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Low key, high tea in NYC…

If you are going to be in NYC to see the shows and shop, you might be tempted to hang out up in mid-town Manhatten, but if you really want a unique adventure, you should definitely head on down to SoHo for some of the best shopping ever, no matter what your age.

In SoHo you will find more boutique type shopping mixed in with some amazing bargainsThere’s also many a cute tiny restaurants every few blocks that are perfect to pop into for a quick bite or drink~

Recently I (JoJami) got a tip that I should visit the new Crosby Street Hotel for tea in The Crosby Bar. So, after the uptown museum, I headed downtown to enjoy a wonderful treat for the eyes and tummy!

This low key boutique hotel (there is no name out front…just the bellman and a flag) is done up in what I would describe as funky-contemporary-cozy.

Here are a few photos of the decor.

Here you can come in, relax (the staff was super friendly)…and no need to feel like you have to hold out your pinky finger while sipping your tea!

The Crosby Bar

Yes, this was as yummy as it looks!

JoJami says," Loved the entire experience, would definitely come back again!"

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Really, I don’t need to try it on….

Have you ever been shopping and said these fateful words: “I DON”T NEED TO TRY IT ON?”  Of course some times that might be fine, but I have found that more times than not, those are words I have lived to regret!

Well,I (JoJami) forgot to take my own advice and I ended up buying this top back in January.

This shirt was a big mistake! I should have tried it on!

Here is the story…

I had gone into the store with a friend and tried on lots of things. Nothing fit or seemed right, so I was walking out the door of the store (empty handed) when I spotted this rack of colorful tops!

Oh, this one looked just great, and I mentioned to my friend, “Boy I could sure use another top, my wardrobe is low on tops right now”.

So she held it up to me and I decided that the size would be fine and there was no need to try it on. (HA!)

Here is a  photo of my new shirt.  YUCK, what was I thinking!

What went wrong?

  • Yes, the color is nice but it ended up being a size too small!
  • The way that the seams hit me on the bust area, flattens my already smallish boobies!
  • The fabric looks cheap when I put it on.
  • The style is not at all flattering.
  • The worst part is that the store has a strict return policy, and now I am stuck with it.

So remember, ALWAYS try things on before you buy, so you won’t make the same mistake I did!

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Do you have the Spring shopping itch?

Oh my gosh…when you live back east like we Glam Gals do, you get pretty tired of all the snow and dreary weather, SO when the sun starts peaking out again, like it has this week, we sure get the itch to get out and go buy something new for Spring! (Good to know that you are not the only one, right!)

I (JoJami) did just that this week and let me tell you what I saw.

    THE BIG MISTAKE!!

    Beware of the Sale rack!

Here I was at the department store, and all this gorgeous new merchandise was hanging there while, ALL the women were over at the Sale rack of old tired, picked over junky tops, pants, dresses….

Ladies, DO NOT MAKE THIS MISTAKE!

Beware of the SALE rack!  You will be tempted to bring home, yet again, something to hang in your closet that is just mediocre.

Always buy something you love and adore, don't settle!

INSTEAD… just go window shopping and try on things that are fresh and new for Spring. Then you can see if you want to splurge on a new jacket or top that is actually updated, new and FUN!

Here is my 1 purchase over the weekend.

This colorful BCBG jacket!  I have already worn it 2 times and have felt great in it.  I have satisfied my shopping craving, and have a new piece for my wardrobe, that I should enjoy for the next few years.

Instead of buying something that you just “sort of like”, be super picky and try buying something that you really need and love.

THEN send us a photo and tell us about it!!!

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Holiday shopping, for better or for worse?

Is it just me who does this…you know, especially around this time of year when you are suppose to be out shopping for others…well, I confess, I end up finding lots of goodies for me!

Now, this is something that I would ever admit openly at a social function…however here between “us girls” I feel like I can air my wayward ways.

So, when I read one of this weeks articles from our gang of super bloggers, I was eager to continue this conversation.

Feel free to comment below and don’t miss more on this hot topic and others at this weeks Blogging Boomers Carnival #143 which is being hosted over at So Baby Boomer!

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Boots for those with foot problems

We recently posted a letter from a reader who can’t wear heels because of foot problems and wanted to know if she could wear leggings with clunky flats.

When we mentioned that instead, she should try some flat boots, she ran out and found a pair at Nordstrom’s!

Now leggings and jeans are fine, but what if she wants to wear a skirt? Since these boots are very casual they will be look best with pants…

These flat boots from Nordstroms will be comfy for those with foot problems!

Flat boots like these will be comfy for those with foot problems

However, here is a skirt that will work with them too.  You could also try a casual dress, like a sweater dress.

This flowered skirt from Boden makes fall dressing feel festive!

Colorful skirts make fall dressing festive

Don’t forget to make sure to find opaque hose (not sheer) or tights that match the boots. This will give the leg a longer look.

We went to Boden.com and Spiegel and found lots of great casual styles to choose from! At Boden, you can even “try” the clothes on a fantasy model and see what they would look like on a person!

Here is another combination we liked:

This flat boot from Boden.com has a more classic look and can be dressed up or down. This shirt from Spiegel, would be a good length and weight to balance this boot

This skirt from Spiegel, would be a good length and weight to balance this boot.

And, for extra comfort and support, don’t forget some Dr. Scholl’s inserts!

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The Military Jacket, is it for over 40 women?

Hi Ladies-

I am so glad I found your wonderful website.  I have a question that relates to what is “age-appropriate”.  I am 43 and very petite.  I am in love with a trend jacket that is big for the Fall, although I usually stay away from trends.  The jacket I am talking about is the Alice + Olivia shrunken military jacket, a picture of which is attached.

Can I wear this look after 40?

My only concern is the age-appropriate perception of this jacket due to the adornment?  My idea would be to wear it with some nice fitting jeans, a simple white top underneath and simple sleek black or metallic heels.  No excessive accessories.  I have tried the jacket on and it fits beautifully.

Your thoughts on the age-appropriateness of this ensemble is greatly appreciated!

Sincerely,

Gail

Hi Gail,

We have been seeing this look around and we agree it is so FUN!… but here it the thing… this is definitely a trend and what we call a “statement piece”.  That means that you really will not wear it all the time and if you do, people will definitely remember that specific jacket.

A more wearbale military style by Tory Burch

Also, we know that this piece is rather expensive and is in the price range that we would call an “investment piece”. We suggest that you keep looking and find one that is similar with the military look, but perhaps not so dramatic as this one.

Moreover, if you buy it,  because it is so trendy you might get tired of it soon and wish you had put your money in a high quality coat that is still fun, but one that you feel good in and can enjoy for a long time. An example of this would be this one we’re showing by Tory Burch.

To answer your question if it is age appropriate, we say that yes, someone over 40 can pull this off, but it is almost “costume-like”… so you would really have to be in a funky, fun job or live in a very cosmopolitan city or environment to wear it enough to get your moneys worth.

BTW… we think it would great left open with a red plaid flannel shirt under it with blue jeans.

Let us know if this is helpful, comment below!

Cheers!

The Glam Gals

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Over 40 Style Lessons learned at the Emmy Awards

Deborah and I are big fans of award shows and we can’t help but enjoy the parade of glamorous starlets down the red carpet… but after checking out the photos of this years Emmy’s we realized that we can learn a lot from them as well!  Moreover, we were pleased to see that this year’s show had lots of Age-mazing™ over 40 women to wow us!

Are you going to be going to a formal affair or on cruise in the next few months?

Here are some great examples of how to (or not to) dress for a formal affair and WHY we think so!

Chandra Wilson  photo by: www.WireImage.com/Steve Granitz

Chandra Wilson looking great! photo: www.WireImage.com/Steve Granitz

Trying to wear strapless after 40:

Here ya go… here is a women with curves that is just rocking this dress!  Love the plunging “V” and bold design at the bottom of the dress.  If you are going to wear strapless, make sure the dress is cut so that it is not straight across. Many strapless dresses tends to push the breasts up and squish them. She has kept her accessories simple with just a necklace and earnings and no bracelet. Great job!

Lesson: Curvy women can wear strapless!

Say No to the Bat Wings:

Let’s not put a number to age, but here’s a reality check. We don’t care when your birthday is or what the tag on your dress says, the bottom line is make sure to look in the mirror before buying a dress.

Here you can see that this dress is just not flattering with her skin bulging out under her arms.

Lesson: Look at yourself in the mirror front and back to make sure nothing’s pouring out!

This dress is just too tight!

This dress is just too tight!

This dress,Kyra Sedgwick, is just too much! photo by Wireimage.com/Jeff Vespa

This dress,Kyra Sedgwick, is just too much! photo: Wireimage.com/Jeff Vespa

You will always look elegant if you go simple:

Look what happens when you try to make the dress the star and not you. Black shoes, with that dress?  Even though the heel matches, the black pump is way too heavy for this flimsy dress – a sandal would have worked much better. (And the red nail polish is clashing too!)

Lesson: Look for a dress that does not overpower you but plays up your best features.

Black can look harsh on aging skin:

Black can help make you look thin, but it can also age you… We actually think the style of this off-the-shoulder dress is quiet flattering and lovely, it is just that the color (or rather the lack of it!) makes Glenn look harsh.

Lesson: Black is too easy of an option. Take the time to try to find a dress that is a pretty color!

Glenn Close we love the dress, but not the color. photo: Getty Images/Jason Merritt

Glenn Close we love the dress, but not the color. photo: Getty Images/Jason Merritt

Sigourney Weaver , looking stunning in this simple gown

Sigourney Weaver , looking stunning in this simple, yet elegant gown! photo:www.wireimage.com/Jeff Vespa

Use color to stand out and have fun:

Sigourney rarely strays from dresses that are more streamline yet feminine. Yes, her body is a temple, but her taste is great too!

Lesson: Simple lines and simple accessories equal class and elegance!


Don’t forget the proper undergarments can make a huge difference, Shapewear from Sassybax or Spanx is our favorite secret weapons!

If you need more detailed info on how to choose the right gown for a wedding or formal affair, get our eBook, Tweak Your Chic: Mother of the Bride!

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Our new e-book, Chic on the Cheap…get it now!

What is your burning fashion question? We asked and you told us…

How can I look updated and chic and NOT spend a lot of money.

Deborah and I didn’t know if it could REALLY be done… so we  went out and put it to the test.

Here am I (JoJami) with one of my lovely clients Linda S.  Linda is over  40, a wife, mother of 4 kids, and a nurse.  She told me she loves to see her teenage daughters looking hip and felt like those days were over for her. She rarely takes the time to shop for herself and when she does she never knew what to buy that was age appropriate.

So we let her read our new e-book… Chic on the Cheap~How to Update Your Wardrobe on a Budget and then sent her out shopping!

Client Linda and JoJami looking to dress chic on the cheap!

Client Linda and JoJami looking to dress chic on the cheap!

Linda realized that her first problem was that all these years she never really had the tools or plan she needed.

“One of the best part about the book was the chapter on Finding your Style Personality” says Linda. “That helped me keep my focus and opened my mind to try new things!”

Linda also confessed…

“I had a great leather skirt that I bought on sale last fall and never wore it because I didn’t have the right shoes.

After reading the book, I learned so much!!  You, Glam Gals put in so many strategies that I could start using right away, and I had no idea of how many costly mistakes I have been making all these years!”

"Get Chic on the Cheap, it change my wardrobe, Yippee!"

"Get Chic on the Cheap, it change my wardrobe, Yippee!"

Are you ready for Fall?  Do you have a plan on what pieces to add or how to update your wardrobe?

Here is how you can start building your new dream wardrobe and save hundreds (for some thousands) of dollars, not making the same old mistakes!

Don’t wait, Click HERE now!

Never before did I think I could enjoy shopping or afford a great wardrobe, I feel so empowered now!~LBS

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Chic on the Cheap at Kohl’s

Here is a great offer… free shipping on purchases over $75.00 at Kohl’s.  We recommend this cute sundress from the Elle collection, and it’s under $40!

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This Vera Wang jacket is a great transitional piece from summer to fall, especially for petites!

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And, if you need a pair of new shorts before the summer ends, these Vera walking shorts are cute and on sale.  vera walking shorts

In fact, all these items and many more are on sale now at khols.com!

These are just a few money-saving suggestions.  Right now, we’re working on a new e-Book “Tweak Your Chic: Chic on the Cheap,” to get you looking great on a budget!

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Updating your skirt wardrobe

In a recent post, I (JoJami) mentioned that my colorful skirt was a few years old and “not that in style any more.”

So that being said…you are probably asking the question, so what is in style?

Although we’ve seen a ton on pleated, circle skirts with a lot of volume that usually hit above the knee, that’s a style best left to younger ladies. As far as skirts go, if you’re ready for a new one, go with a pencil skirt or one that is a little straighter. The knee-length classic pencil or slimmer A-line skirt is flattering on most body types, and has been around for a few seasons now.  The popularity is growing, so not only are they all over the place, but pencils don’t come in just black or gray anymore! Even though they have a more streamlined look, but you can go for fun colors and jazzy prints to liven them up a little.

Here are a few that we suggest: What we like about these are that you can start wearing them now with sandals and then as we transition into fall, you can add some tights and boots!

boden colorful skirt Here’s one from Boden. It’s a slimmer A-line skirt with a bold pattern that can be worn with neutral wedges, or boot like in the picture.  We love the colors in this, and it’s a great example of how you can transition from summer to fall with boots.
boss veronica skirt - nordstroms This skirt is from Nordstrom’s. In the picture, it’s dressed up with heels, but pair it with gladiator sandals for casual or brown knee-high boots in fall!  The fact that it has a brown pattern in it makes it a no-brainer for choosing matching shoes.
plaid nordstrom skirt Here’s another example from Nordstom’s. We usually find black and white to be a little boring, so make it more fun with a bright top! We’ve been seeing a lot of plaid in stores this season, so make sure you wear plaid in a sophisticated and feminine way (not those shrunken flannel shirts that are all the rage among teen girls).
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Putting color in your wardrobe.

Oh we Glam Gals LOVE color! When we go out shopping, we look for those pieces to add to our wardrobe that will make us feel happy.

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JoJami in her colorful skirt!

Here is a fun homework assignment you can try in your own closet.

Find something in your closet that you own that is a pretty color and wear it!

Here is an old skirt that I (JoJami) had hanging in my closet. It is really not in style, but I like to put it on when I am just going to be very casual or have to run to the grocery store.

I was having a bad hair day, so I threw on this fun hat!

Now, I can get dressed in the morning, feel VERY comfortable, throw flat shoes on or a heel and be ready for any adventure the day might bring!

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