Have fun and try a cuff.  We think you find that they are an easy way to add some pizazz to your wardrobe!

This silver cuff is so simple and lightweight, you can wear it everyday!

This beautiful cuff will make a statement weather you dress it up with a pretty dress or wear it with jeans!

This airy style is says, "Spring/Summer"

This cuff is a great basic and will be able to transition you from winter into Spring!

Well,I (JoJami) forgot to take my own advice and I ended up buying this top back in January.

This shirt was a big mistake! I should have tried it on!

Here is the story…

I had gone into the store with a friend and tried on lots of things. Nothing fit or seemed right, so I was walking out the door of the store (empty handed) when I spotted this rack of colorful tops!

Oh, this one looked just great, and I mentioned to my friend, “Boy I could sure use another top, my wardrobe is low on tops right now”.

So she held it up to me and I decided that the size would be fine and there was no need to try it on. (HA!)

Here is a  photo of my new shirt.  YUCK, what was I thinking!

What went wrong?

• Yes, the color is nice but it ended up being a size too small!
• The way that the seams hit me on the bust area, flattens my already smallish boobies!
• The fabric looks cheap when I put it on.
• The style is not at all flattering.
• The worst part is that the store has a strict return policy, and now I am stuck with it.

So remember, ALWAYS try things on before you buy, so you won’t make the same mistake I did!

I (JoJami) did just that this week and let me tell you what I saw.

THE BIG MISTAKE!!

Beware of the Sale rack!

Here I was at the department store, and all this gorgeous new merchandise was hanging there while, ALL the women were over at the Sale rack of old tired, picked over junky tops, pants, dresses….

Ladies, DO NOT MAKE THIS MISTAKE!

Beware of the SALE rack!  You will be tempted to bring home, yet again, something to hang in your closet that is just mediocre.

Always buy something you love and adore, don't settle!

INSTEAD… just go window shopping and try on things that are fresh and new for Spring. Then you can see if you want to splurge on a new jacket or top that is actually updated, new and FUN!

Here is my 1 purchase over the weekend.

This colorful BCBG jacket!  I have already worn it 2 times and have felt great in it.  I have satisfied my shopping craving, and have a new piece for my wardrobe, that I should enjoy for the next few years.

Instead of buying something that you just “sort of like”, be super picky and try buying something that you really need and love.

THEN send us a photo and tell us about it!!!

Enjoy!

Lola & Gigi’s New Fall Arrivals from Mike Realba on Vimeo.

Glasses with evening wear is not easy to pull off!

We recently posted some amazing before and after photos of several “average” looking women who in 12 short hours turned into eye popping goddesses!

With that, several of you commented that some of the women wore glasses in their “before” photos and then had them off in the after!

Well, one of the reasons that none of the women were wearing eyeglasses in the “after” is that they all had on evening gowns.

Let’s face it, wearing your everyday glasses with a formal gown in not an easy look to pull off, unless you’re Sophia Lauren!

However, you can still be fabulous with glasses on a daily basis.

Here are our tips on this eye popping subject!

1) If you wear glasses on a daily basis, make sure you have a pair that is updated and looks good with your style of dressing.

2) Decide if you want your glasses to be a fashion statement or not.

You hardly notice that Sarah Palin is wearing rimless glasses!

Rimless glasses are a conservative choice and literally “disappear”.  Sarah Palin is a good example of how to wear this style of eyeglasses.

3) If you are going to a formal event and have to wear your glasses, make sure to pick a dress that will be simple and not compete with your glasses.

4) If you have had your glasses for over 2 to 3 years, you should think about updating them.

Tina Fey looks chic and smart in these updated frames.

5) Glasses can be a way to express your creativity. If you are ready for a new pair, why not go out on a limb and try something that is colorful or a new style.

6) Know your face shape. Try on frames that will contrast with your face shape to balance you out. (e.g. If you have a long face, a more rounded frame will be best for you)

Just because you wear glasses does not mean that you can’t look chic or stylish. Just make sure that you have an entire look that is harmonious and that fits your lifestyle!

With updated hair, makeup and clothes, wearing glasses can be festive and fabulous!

This week our host is the Midlife Crisis Queen with topics as varied as a new product for women, that allows you to go the bathroom standing up like a man!  It is called, Go Girl and you will just have to see it to believe it!

Don’t miss hearing about this new invention and other interesting thoughts and ideas from some of the webs top Boomer Bloggers!

Look at the before and after photos.. Conclusion  …Behind every frumpy woman is a goddess.

Click on the picture below to see the outcome:

We recently wrote a post to discuss whether clogs were in fashion and you left us lots and lots of comments.

Many of you wrote that you loved the comfort of a clog, while others thought they were “hideous”!

Well, after causing so much fuss, I (JoJami) thought I would take a look around and find out if there were  any clogs that I might actually wear.  I happen to be out in Aspen right now and it is amazing how different women dress when the weather is really messy most of the winter. I definitely  have been seeing more boots, but I’m sure as the snow melts many of these women are going to be sporting clogs since this is such a casual environment.

Here is an interesting article on how to wear clogs that show a few of the new “fashion” clogs. As you can see, even these skinny young girls do not look all that great in them, so can you imagine us over 40 gals!

However,  if you  still want to try to wear the clog as a fashion trend this Spring, then here are some of my picks! (Deborah says she has yet to find any clog she finds attractive! )

These clogs are from Zappos.

Tassels are everywhere this Spring, so why not try them on your clogs!

The nude color and simple design makes this clog a good choice

These clog inspired shoes would work well with both pants or a skirt!

Our host is Life Two and they have lots of interesting Boomer related articles you can read to feed your “inner geek”. Head on over and feel free to comment!

E is the author of a new book on M (menopause) called Shmirshsky, Think Inside the Box.

We came across this quick read and it had us chuckling out loud, as well as helping to demystify common symptoms of PM and M (e.g. Am I the only one that can’t remember things anymore?) without making it all so serious!

“Don’t hide your shmirshky under a bush! ”

Shmirshky empowers women to take charge of this often mysterious topic.

Do you know what some of the symptoms of PM and M are?

E helps her readers learn how to interpret the symptoms of PM&M, research and interview doctors, understand the necessary tests, and reach out to loved ones for support.

How can you treat them?

Treating the symptoms of PM&M is not a one-size-fits-all situation. As E says, “Too bad they can’t administer hormone therapy through a pair of heels.”

Hey, E. that is not a bad idea!!!

We know that this whole M. thing is no laughing matter, but E. has a “take charge” attitude with a nice touch of humor!

For a 20% Off when ordering the book, use this Discount Code: FABAFTER40.

If you know of any other books you liked on the M. subject, please comment below!