I realize the season has passed for these but am wondering if I “can or should” be wearing Capris.
Yes. Cathy Capris are still in style and you look FAB! (pants from K Mart)
They are made of a stretchy material and about the only thing that fits me because of my super skinny legs. Is this appropriate for my age. (59) And as long as I look like this, is it ok to still wear them or should I forget the Capris and start wearing pants. (shorts do NOT look good on me because of my skinny legs)
Cathy S.
Hi Cathy,
Actually, people read our Fabulous After 4o blog from all over the world, so for some it IS summer, so thanks for sending in this question!
Yes, Capris are very much still in style and absolutely age-appropriate. You are so youthful looking and in great shape! (Just look at those lovely arms!!!!)
And your legs are gorgeous!! Please let us know the brand of your pants, they certainly are flattering on your type of body!
The top you have chosen is nice too because it is long enough and hits you at a good spot.
Your necklace is perfect to fill in the scoop neck
Your sandals are updated and the thickness of the straps balance out the print in the top.
Keep up the great work at looking Age-mazing™, the word we use for looking amazing for your age!
When you live in a small town and have to always drive at least 45 mins or more to get to find some decent shopping, it’s really exciting when one of your favorites decides to open up right here in your own back yard.
Yes, Nordstrom is the new darling of department stores here in Wilmington,Delaware! After three years of rumors that they would be coming to town, I (JoJami) recently had the opportunity to get a sneak peek before the doors officially open on Friday, April 7th!
With lovely food, models and a lively band jamming away, the pre-opening Gala was a big hit with the 1,700 guests! Moreover, it was with great joy that I got to mingle with them and all for a good cause… you see, Nordstrom is going to be donating all the money to local charities! That’s the way to come rolling into town and get off to a great start!
So, I snapped a few photos of some sharp-looking Glam Gals to share with you!
Looking subtly wild in animal print!
Taking a black dress and making it work for Spring!
Looking festive in this pretty flowered wrap dress, Linda Kubasek Yenshaw is one of FAF's biggest fans! Just adore her shoes and bag, too!
Regional Shoe Dept. head and JoJami (wearing Trina Turk)
Only 37, but says she loves and reads FAF! She said it has helped her to find a way to express her rocker chic look and still be age-appropriate. Great job!!
This electric blue was the color of the night! However, this gal admitted, "I'm running straight over to the shoe department to go update my boots!"
Is it acceptable for a woman over 40 to wear the combat boots which are popular again? If so, what would be the proper way to wear them? I remember wearing them in the 90′s and how comfortable they were, but I have a feeling that these boots aren’t worn in the same manner this time around. Please advise.
Here is a great example of when an old trend comes around and we are feeling like, do I or don’t I try it again?
We are afraid there is no short “yes” or “no” answer to this.
However here are a few notes to think about before going out shopping.
We have seen these on older women looking hip and cool but you must have a whole look. The most successful have paired them with something feminine like the outfit above. If you try to do it all black with leather, you a going to look like an older rocker. (which if fine if you are one, but probably not the best look for the rest of us)
You can wear these with jeans, but again, make sure to show a bit of a feminine touch.(like wearing a dainty necklace).
If you have a teenage daughter and she is wearing them, you might think twice about trying to do so also. Why not let her have that style and you try something a little different? This is definitely a popular trend with the younger generation and one that is not as easy to pull off as we age.
If you live in a cosmopolitan city or have a creative job where you like to look trendy, then go for it.
Or no matter where you live, if you just love the look and want to wear it and feel comfortable, then fine.
Bottom line, anything really goes these days and if you have the attitude and you really want to try to wear combat boots, then fine.
For our personal taste, neither of us Glam Gals are going to be investing in a pair of combat boots. Our taste leans more to a boot that looks sleek, clean and simple. There are plenty of comfortable boots that are in style other than this trendy look.
Glam Gals say go for the combat boots if you feel like expressing your creative side, but personally we are both going to pass on this clunky trend! I (JoJami) have actually tried on a few pairs (some more radical than others) and felt that they would just not fit into most of my wardrobe. Deborah’s taste is more refined, and they are just not her style.
Would you wear this look? Comment below and let us know your feelings!!
Hi Deborah and JoJami,
I love your website and have spent the last couple of hours reading all of your wonderful advice. I have a question though that maybe you can answer.
I’m over 40 (a little) and have three young children. My kids are 9, 7 and 5 and I spend lots of time on playgrounds and in gyms. I am in good shape and not overweight but would like to dress a little more sophisticated, stylish and attractive. However, I can’t keep up with my children in heels or even clogs. I am most interested in summer clothes. I end up wearing old shorts, t-shirts and running shoes or sporty sandals that all feel a little out of style. And the Texas heat is always a variable that causes me to add a baseball cap to my pitiful outfit! I didn’t see anything on your website about active wear. Any advice? Thanks alot.
~Ann
Hi Ann,
Your plight is one that many women suffer! No matter what your age, we all need to be able to have a casual look that will have us feeling like we are both comfortable and still stylish. We like to call our solution, “The Going To The Grocery Store Outfit“, because you should be able to go running around town or to the playground in something other than the basic jeans and a t-shirt.
We want to hear from you, send us your photo of your favorite casual outfit or just comment below!
Perk it up with Stripes!
If you want to stay cool a t-shirt is a great item but why not try updating your wardrobe with a stripes. This casual jacket is just the item to perk up that casual look and give you a polished look! Pair this with some classy jeans, not these ripped ones!(Boden)
Start with a comfortable shoe.
Those dingy tennis shoes can wreck an outfit. If you can find a shoe (like this red flat) or sandal that is fresh and comfortable, you will feel like a new person!
(Boden)
Don’t be afraid of wearing a sundress.
Think a little sundress might be too fancy for the playground, think again. If you find one on sale or at a consignment shop you can actually pay less and look sharper than you would in a pair of casual shorts. (Boden)
Use the new trends to bring color into your wardrobe!
We recently wrote an article on color blocking which is one of the newest trends for Spring. With layering tanks or buying contrasting colorful shorts and tops you can really have fun mixing it up bright colors!
You can also put a festive cardigan over a sundress to bring an unexpected splash of color and brighten things up!
Dressing sexy, yet still looking age-appropriate, can seem like a challenge if you love fashion!!
So what’s the secret to looking stunning this Valentine’s Day?
We have a few tips to dress just right for this romantic holiday:
Don’t feel like you have to wear red or hearts!
It seems crazy that Valentine’s Day ads show clothing that is either red, or loaded down with hearts. After 40 hearts wearing hearts looks too little girlish and red doesn’t necessarily look good on all of us. Don’t fall for this marketing ploy that tries to get you to buy something you will only wear once a year and that may not even look good on you.
This little necklace is not sophisticated enough for a 40 plus woman!
Do Dress from the waist up
Keep in mind that you will be sitting down to dine, so make sure the neckline on your dress or top is flattering. Your top half should reveal a little skin so that you look feminine.
This dress is sexy but when you sit down it will be boring!
This dress has a much better neckline!
Don’t wear a top or jacket in a stiff fabric.
Think soft fabrics like cashmere or a shiny fabric like silk. Who wouldn’t want their date to sit closer for a snuggle!
This jacket is too stiff for a romantic evening!
Do try an off the shoulder top.
A top like this will give you both sex appeal and good arm coverage, especially if you have thick arms!
Wow~ this is a great outfit!
Don’t forget to wear a little make up or be careful of wearing too much!
No matter how gorgeous you are, a tiny bit of moisturizer, foundation, concealer, blush and lipstick does the trick to just add a little glow to your face! On the flip side, those who like to pile it on, be careful of using too much foundation and powder. Letting a little shine come through is a sure sign of youth!
Thanks to YOU…2010 has been our biggest year ever with over 55,000 unique visitors a month!
We’ve appreciate that you’ve spread the word about FAF to grow our amazing community. It’s been so much fun chatting with all of you and seeing everyone become such good friends.
Just in case you missed any posts, here are this year’s most hotly debated ones! Keep the comments coming…we love to hear from you at Fabulous after 40!
Back in first place again this year… we followed our friendJill Knapp on her journey of weight loss. She hit her one year mark and has still been able to keep the weight off and even made an appearance on to the Dr. Oz show
Jill before and after her 100 pound weight loss!
2. This yearGray hair became a surprise fashion trend! This opened the door to discuss the “to go or not to go gray” topic, here at FAF! Read more…
Helen Mirren looking radiant in her gray hair!
3. Over the knee and Thigh high boots, are they age appropriate?Many of you said that you had the hankering to find your inner biker chic and this article sure got the sparks flying!!
We know that we love to preach how NOT to buy black, but we could not help but share this Age-mazing Grandmother, who we saw shopping the other day with her over 40 daughter and grandson! The daughter was from NYC and so they had been shopping recently and bought the same shirt. Here is how they both took this simple black piece and made it age appropriate for themselves. Not only that, we have gotten many letters from you all that are asking the question, “Can I still have a more creative or funky look and not look silly?” We say,” but, of course” !!!
All black is easy to wear, when you off for a day of shopping
Here how theses gals got their hip and “funky” but casual looks:
Start with an good quality t-shirt dress, that hits above your knees. Notice that the sleeves are on the long side, so cover arms but will still keep you cool. Also, the v-neckline is wide and flattering. If it was a rounded neckline, it would not look as hip.
Dear Glam Gals,
I realize the season has passed for these but am wondering if I "can or should" be wearing Capris.
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