Over 40 and wondering what to wear to a casual holiday open house, an afternoon cookie exchange, or just cocktails around the fire? Here are 7 suggestions for How Not to Look Old During the Holidays:

1. Stay away from Christmas-themed sweaters

Stay away from costume-like clothing that makes you look like you raided a senior citizen’s closet. To be cool this Christmas, don’t be so obvious. Re-gift that Holiday themed sweater to the Good Will.

Instead, we suggest something like this hip red sweater paired with black pants, boots and a fabulous bag. It’s sexy, age appropriate and perfect for a holiday get together.

You’ll look cozy and sexy in this simple off the shoulder statement sweater. Can’t you just see wearing this as you sit around the fireplace and drink red wine?

Here’s another great option. This camisole with matching wrap sweater is also pretty, lady-like and perfect for the holidays.

2. Try wearing winter white

Winter white is chic and sophisticated. Even with jeans this pretty snowflake white sweater will dress things up. You can wear a winter white outfit like this with high boots, but a low heeled boot in chocolate brown would work equally as well. You could also try pulling the sweater out and belting it, if you are self-conscious about your tummy.

3. Show up in a pair of fabulous boots

Boots have image impact. You can wear them with anything and always look sexy and cool. You may have to trudge through the snow in a practical pair to get to your party, but once you arrive slip on a more fashionable pair that are fresh and new, and that make your legs look wow. Then enjoy the compliments!

If you want a lower heel, then these black beauties are a casual, modern choice.

4. Replace heavy knits with fine, cozy cashmere

You’re not living at the North Pole so don’t show up in something you’d have to wear to keep warm up there. Instead of a bulky heavy ski sweater, which will only make you look like a polar bear, try a light, pretty cashmere sweater. A more up to date choice is this purple cashmere sweater. It’s romantic and a nice change too from typical holiday wear. Be sure to wear some beautiful jewelry with this to accent this royal color.

Want a little more glamor? Try this stunning mocha sequined cashmere sweater set, and imagine how it will glow in candlelight!

Would you rather wear a dress? Here’s a comfy casual cashmere dress. We suggest you keep the tights grey for a nice lean line……textured grey would add a lot of interest.

5. Wow them with a hip satin jewel-toned blouse

A pretty silky blouse is an easy way to up the glamour during the holidays. There’s no need to stick to red, though. Any deep, rich clear color will look festive too. Metallics also work with the mood of the season. Wear your blouse with black pants or a black skirt and you are good to go. Here are a few we like…

6. Opt for festive, but not obvious, Christmas jewelry

A candy cane pin, a Christmas tree charm on a necklace. No matter how cute or sentimental, it will still look like it came from the dollar store. Instead try something festive, but subtle. See how this circle necklace looks like something you might string on an X-mas tree, but doesn’t scream “It’s Christmas.”

This charm bracelet also has a romantic  feel…

7. Look lean and lovely in a long vest

A long vest is so classy and comfortable. You can pair it with slim pants that you tuck into your boots or wear out, like this. Add a belt at the waist or lower on the hips depending on your body type.

You might also want to pair a vest with something tighter like these double-knit leggings by Vince. They are thinner than tights and will keep you warmer. You would wear these tucked into boots. Unless you are very tall and thin, we would advise NOT to wear these with flats (as shown).

If you don’t look good in tight pants then here is a wide legged version.