Fabulous After 40
Fabulous After 40

Where to find the styles you see on TV and in movies

We recently posted a photo of Meryl Streep looking Age-mazing™  in her recent film, It’s Complicated.

It led to this email…

Hi Ladies:

My husband and I recently went to see the movie It’s Complicated.  Loved everything about it.  Loved Meryl’s fashion style.  But really noted her Jewelry .  Would you ladies have any idea who makes it?  Would love something similar.
Susan F.

So ladies… here’s a great site we found that gives you the scoop on what a celebrity is wearing and where to find it!

It is called:

I Saw It In (www.isawitin.com)

This site will show you where to find celebrity fashions

Have fun and please let us know if you found what you wanted. Also, let us know of any other similar sites you like!

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Does your purse make you look like an old lady?

Here is a great fashion question from one of our readers: Dear Glam Gals, Wondering what handbags you would consider “old lady” and which would be considered more youthful…..thanks! L. C. Vandercook Hi L.C. We had fun looking for some good examples to share with you. Here are our Do’s and Don’ts

Example Don’t Do
This bag on the left is too stiff and old lady like, plus it’s boring beige.

See how the bag on the right is more relaxed and soft. That’s what you want. Soft is youthful and the color adds life! (Nordstroms)

You see these bags like this one the left all the time on older women. These bags look heavy and tired. Do you want to look heavy and tired too?

Try shiny black patent leather with white piping instead for a fresher, up to date look. (Black House White Market)

Patchwork may be in, but over 40,  sorry, it looks like you’ve taken up quilting.

Try a single bright pop of color with a classy touch of hardware for a  more powerful chic look. (Saks)

Red is always  cheery and can be sporty mixed with tan or brown, but this bag on the left has a boring shape making it look ho-hum.

Instead,try this cute one on the right. It’s got a less uptight shape, is also more matte, so more sporty and the tassels are a great stylish. Tally ho! (Nordstroms)

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Second time brides and special occasion dressing after 40

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FAF reader, Cindy Mellow, in her recent wedding on the beach

Where do you turn to for advice when you are getting married for the second time and you want to make sure you look age-appropriate? Call on the Glam Gals, of course!

Looking Age-mazing™ for a wedding or any special occasion can be a challenge when your over 40 and want to make sure you not trying to look too young or too old.

With our e-book, Tweak Your Chic™, Dressing for the Mother of the Bride, we have a plan on how to approach shopping for any special occasion not just weddings! This e-book is packed with tips and a worksheet to make shopping a breeze for any upcoming event.

Here is are just a few of the issues we solve:

  • Finding the right dress for your body type
  • How to pick the perfect accessories
  • Where do I start?

For all of December, when you buy our e- book, we will be happy to answer up to 5 style questions (via e-mail) that you might have. Just write and e-mail us photos for us to review to: info@fabulousafter40.com

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Don’t miss out on this Special first time offer!

Mother Of The Bride

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How to update your wardrobe 5 ways with only 1 piece!

One of our readers wrote us recently that she was really depressed that she had nothing to wear to an upcoming Sunday afternoon Christmas tea. Her budget was very limited and she didn’t want to have to buy an entire new outfit.

We suggested that she go out and find a new blouse to spice up what she already had in her closet!

She was thrilled and went out and found a gorgeous new blouse for $49.00 and when she got it home, she realized that it was going to be able to make up to 5 new outfits with it!

Here are a few suggestions that we think would be great additions to your winter wardrobe! The secret is finding a blouse with an interesting neckline that will add some flair!

This type of neckline is always flattering!

This type of neckline is always flattering!

Under a suit jacket or on its own, this pretty blouse looks good on all body types! (from Nordstroms)


animal print blouse spiegel

This animal print is soft and romantic! (from Spiegel)

This off the shoulder is hard to find, but easy to look good in!

This off the shoulder is hard to find, but easy to look good in!

We like this ivory blouse that is off the shoulder,  because it can be sexy with out showing cleavage! (Nordstroms)

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Boots for those with foot problems

We recently posted a letter from a reader who can’t wear heels because of foot problems and wanted to know if she could wear leggings with clunky flats.

When we mentioned that instead, she should try some flat boots, she ran out and found a pair at Nordstrom’s!

Now leggings and jeans are fine, but what if she wants to wear a skirt? Since these boots are very casual they will be look best with pants…

These flat boots from Nordstroms will be comfy for those with foot problems!

Flat boots like these will be comfy for those with foot problems

However, here is a skirt that will work with them too.  You could also try a casual dress, like a sweater dress.

This flowered skirt from Boden makes fall dressing feel festive!

Colorful skirts make fall dressing festive

Don’t forget to make sure to find opaque hose (not sheer) or tights that match the boots. This will give the leg a longer look.

We went to Boden.com and Spiegel and found lots of great casual styles to choose from! At Boden, you can even “try” the clothes on a fantasy model and see what they would look like on a person!

Here is another combination we liked:

This flat boot from Boden.com has a more classic look and can be dressed up or down. This shirt from Spiegel, would be a good length and weight to balance this boot

This skirt from Spiegel, would be a good length and weight to balance this boot.

And, for extra comfort and support, don’t forget some Dr. Scholl’s inserts!

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What to wear with the 3/4 sleeve jacket

Dear Glam Gals,

The 3/4 length sleeves on winter coats seem to be popular, but what do you do with your sleeves of dress, shirt, etc?  Would it be appropriate to wear long gloves?

Thanks, Ellen

Dear Ellen,

With all the rage of the 3/4 sleeve jacket, there are lots of options on how to wear this look.

I (JoJami) just bought this plaid jacket from a local resale shop, and have found it a great 3/4 sleeve plaid jackettransition piece into fall. I have worn it with some black slim pants, with a black turtleneck with tall boots tucked into them, as well as more casual with a pair of straight legged jeans.

I even wore it with a black pencil skirt and black tights and black pumps and a thick belt to a networking event.

This big question is: Is it OK that my sleeves hang out the bottom? Yes, we have seen them with the sleeves hanging out the bottom (like this hounds tooth jacket below from Nordstrom’s), but feel it looks best if you choose a top that you can push up the sleeves or are sleeveless.

This houndstooth jacket is from Nordstroms

This 3/4 sleeve jacket is from Nordstroms

Moreover we agree that this jacket would look great with a pair of long leather gloves when the weather gets cooler.

It is also looks great with different shells.  Here I have a sleeveless turtle neck, and a 3/4 sleeve scoop necked shell.

The options are endless, however I really like to keep it simple with all black underneath or pop it with a white blouse.

There is a bit of tan in the plaid as well, and would work nicely with a column of tan underneath as well.  Since I bought it used, I would not attempt to try to put red with it, since it would be probably next to impossible to get the red right.

One more note, we both agree that we would not invest in a piece  like this if it was pricey, since this is more of a trendy look.  However this one was only $40.00 and so I felt like it was a good buy for how much I will be wearing it.

If you have a 3/4 jacket, please send us your photo in it with permission to use it on our blog. It is always fun to see how others put their looks together!

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Can I wear a short skirt for Halloween?

Is this costume age appropriate?

Is this costume age appropriate?

Dear Glam Gals,

Do you have any guidelines for Halloween costumes? Some of them are very sexy, risque, or silly. I have a Star Trek dress which is like those worn by the women in the old Captain Kirk Star Trek TV show. (Think Lt. Uhura.) It’s modest except for the skirt length being mid-thigh. Am I too old for this look now (I’m 46)?

Dear Ms. Star Trek,

Personally neither of us Glam Gals would think of dressing in a mid-thigh sexy skirt for Halloween and have not done so since around age 40.  However, it really depends on the crowd that you are in and what message you want to send. If you have great legs and will be wearing dark hose, it might be alright. The best rule of thumb in dressing however is…IF YOU ARE HESITANT, DON’T DO IT!

Your inner gut is usually your best gauge and it is always better to err on the side of tasteful, than over the top. That way, you don’t have to feel self conscious and wish you had worn something else.

All that being said, having fun is the main point, and if you want to wear a short skirt or be extra sexy on Halloween, go for it!  It’s the one day of the year that really anything goes!

Happy Halloween!

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Top 10 fears of Getting Old

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Is fear of flabby arms are on your list?

If you were to make the top 10 list of getting old what would they be?

We know many of you worry about how to deal with flabby arms. ( The Glam Gals suggest that you try a great shape wear product called Sassybax)

Bottom line is when you look at your fears face on, you might be surprised to find there are some ready solutions to many of them…

This is just one of the topics in this weeks Blogging Boomers Carnival #132, that you might find interesting.

To read more about this and other Boomer topics,  you can check out at this weeks Carnival host, our friend Rhea over at the Boomer Chronicles.

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