In a recent post, I (JoJami) mentioned that my colorful skirt was a few years old and “not that in style any more.”
So that being said…you are probably asking the question, so what is in style?
Although we’ve seen a ton on pleated, circle skirts with a lot of volume that usually hit above the knee, that’s a style best left to younger ladies. As far as skirts go, if you’re ready for a new one, go with a pencil skirt or one that is a little straighter. The knee-length classic pencil or slimmer A-line skirt is flattering on most body types, and has been around for a few seasons now. The popularity is growing, so not only are they all over the place, but pencils don’t come in just black or gray anymore! Even though they have a more streamlined look, but you can go for fun colors and jazzy prints to liven them up a little.
Here are a few that we suggest: What we like about these are that you can start wearing them now with sandals and then as we transition into fall, you can add some tights and boots!
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Here’s one from Boden. It’s a slimmer A-line skirt with a bold pattern that can be worn with neutral wedges, or boot like in the picture. We love the colors in this, and it’s a great example of how you can transition from summer to fall with boots. |
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This skirt is from Nordstrom’s. In the picture, it’s dressed up with heels, but pair it with gladiator sandals for casual or brown knee-high boots in fall! The fact that it has a brown pattern in it makes it a no-brainer for choosing matching shoes. |
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Here’s another example from Nordstom’s. We usually find black and white to be a little boring, so make it more fun with a bright top! We’ve been seeing a lot of plaid in stores this season, so make sure you wear plaid in a sophisticated and feminine way (not those shrunken flannel shirts that are all the rage among teen girls). |
It is easy to feel frumpy after 40, especially when life in general is all about dressing casually. I (JoJami) was out on a group hike over the weekend, and was chatting with a fellow hiker about her frustrations with her everyday dressing techniques.
Dresses are a great summer option to shorts or capris
Hiker Sue: I am petite and my middle has spread, even though I exercise and eat moderately. I am not interested in looking fashionable, I just want to dress age appropriately.
JJ: I understand how you feel, we hear the same story from our FAF readers all the time who write us and complain that they can’t find anything at the store anymore.
Hiker Sue: What I do now is wear the same “uniform” that works for me. I love khaki pants and simple t-shirts. I also find that I don’t wear heels much anymore, because I like to be comfortable when I walk around town.
JJ: Well, have your tried putting little dresses into your casual wardrobe? They are so wonderful, you feel more feminine and you can wear flats or heels with them.
Hiker Sue: You know, a lot of women have given up wearing dresses because of chaffing! Their thighs rub together and it makes wearing dresses really uncomfortable!
JJ: Actually, I have not really thought about that!!! Thanks for bringing it up!!
Oh my, chaffing thighs under dresses is a terrible problem. But ladies, there is a solution!
If you find wearing dresses uncomfortable, we highly recommend that you wear some shapewear under your dress. The little “bike short” style is just perfect to go under any sundress and will totally eliminate the chaffing problem. We found a ton of these over at Bare Necessities in a variety of styles and sizes. Make sure you grab the thigh slimmers that have a flat band around the leg opening so they don’t roll up, and long enough for comfort (probably right above the knee). Not only will they stop your thighs from rubbing together, they will smooth out your legs and midsection too!
So we hope you will go out and try on a new dress and add it to your casual wardrobe. Find some cute flats and also some matching heels and see how you feel!
Then send it in and let us share it !!!
Have you ever looked at something in the store and thought, “Nah,I’m not going to try it on. It’s probably not for me..I don’t think?”…. and then you walked away?
Well, this summer I (Deborah) nearly walked away from two winners.
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The first was a simple navy blue Diane Von Furstenberg dress with a nautical feel. It had a cute scoop neckline, billowy sleeves and a darling rope belt. I liked it, but I was sure it would be too loose and billowy, and would make me like I was wearing a big old bag.
But then I thought…. what the heck, I’ll try it.
To my surprise, it was actually very fitted through the waist and hips and looked really cute on me. It’s so comfortable too, and looks great with my red canvas Ralph Lauren wedges.
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 Deborah says, "You can still feel glam even going casual!" |
The second near miss was another Diane Von Furstenberg dress…..this one had a simple cut and the material had a wild colorful pattern. Now, normally I don’t wear many patterns, but I was really attracted to the colors in this dress. I also like things that nip in at the waist and this looked more just a straight up and down style. It didn’t have the greatest rack appeal but, but I just had a feeling.
It’s now become my new favorite dress. It’s cute and comfy and I can dress it up and down. I have had a million compliments, and most important of all I feel fantastic in it. Here’s me on my way to my girlfriend’s new country house for a casual summer dinner.
So what’s the lesson here? If you’re not sure, try it on anyway. It sure worked for me! Oh, and do check out Diane Von Furstenberg. She’s on of my favorites. Saks carries a lot of her clothes.
Dear Glam Gals,
Two years ago I decided to go back to college. Most of my fellow students were the same age as my youngest child. I started looking for resources to help me update my look so that I could try to maneuver that area between not too young and not too old.
I have now graduated and am now at my new job in my new career. I have learned that wardrobes need constant updating and your emails give me ideas on how to do that successfully.
Several people I know are looking for new jobs or trying to hang on to current jobs. I am looking for ideas for summer – more stylish, career pieces that are easy on the pocketbook.
Thanks and keep up the great work.
Renee F.
San Marcos, Texas
Dear Renee,
We love the fact that you are making the effort to keep yourself updated, especially since you are competing for jobs in the workplace. Showing that you take pride in yourself and care about what is up-to-date makes you look even more like a go-getter in this tough economy!
That being said, there are a few trends popping up this summer that you can inexpensively add to basics you already have in your wardrobe. Some summer trends we see are: full skirts, splashy colors and prints, and flowy fabrics.
Of course, all together, these trends are not very age appropriate, unless you want to look like a little frilly girl playing dress-up in a nightgown. But, focusing on working one of these pieces into an outfit is totally acceptable, and will make you look very hip.
For example, here we took the full, colorful patterned skirt trend, and dressed it up for work with a modern, sleek short sleeve blazer. On the weekend, choose one of the colors from the pattern to wear on top, and wear it with a flat sandal. The idea is to use these pieces sparingly in a sophisticated way.
By using the new splashy summer prints, you can breath life into old separates. Look how this plain khaki blazer looks instantly more chic with a flowy, colorful skirt!
As far as staples for this season, invest in modern classics like a great fitting pencil skirt and cardigan sweater set. You will be surprised at just how many outfits you can create by mixing in fun items with these staples!
Adding touches of in-style items here and there not only makes your wardrobe look up to date, but it can save you money as well. All these pieces came from Kohl’s and KMart….and each piece is under $30 (it’s true!)! Mixing these inexpensive pieces with your quality basics will give you a great bang for your buck. Let’s face it — they’re probably only going to be popular for one year anyway!
Linen, it’s such a great fabric. It’s all natural, breathable and cool, but the thought of looking wrinkled in it has given it a bad rap!
This Age-mazing woman is looking classy and feeling comfortable her linen outfit
Have you ever thought to yourself, “I’d love to wear linen but I can’t because it wrinkles so much.” We spotted this Age-Mazing© woman, Stacey Inglis at the airport recently traveling with her daughter and could not take our eyes off her. Wow… in the sea of hurried travelers this woman was looking radiant in what seemed to be a linen outfit. Could this be? We stopped her for a quick chat!
Stacey, do you wear linen often?
Yes! I have had this jacket for several years and it’s one of my favorites!
Where did you get it?
It’s an Anne Klein…so probably at Macy’s.
What about your skirt and blouse and shoes?
The skirt is Carole Little and this blouse came from Express! (the blouse is a halter wrap around, so you you don’t have to tuck it in!)
The shoes are Via Spiga…they are so comfortable!!!
This Fab statement piece is by Stephanie Greenfield
Your necklace really makes your outfit! Is there a story behind it?
LOL… Well I just bought it on my trip and the funny thing is, I was reading Cosmopolitan Magazine on the plane just now, and here it is featured on page 65!
Oh my… is that a Lalique bracelet?
Well, I love Paris and last time I went I treated myself to one special thing… you know this bracelet probably cost more than my entire outfit, but I like to mix things up!
Lalique bracelet...a treat from Paris
One last question, do you always dress nice like this?
You know, I find that it is just as easy to put on something like this on than a pair of jeans, and I’m actually more comfortable. You don’t have to spend a lot on clothes to look nice!
Well you look terrific!
So ladies… the proof is in the pictures! By injecting some linen and wonderful accessories into your wardrobe, you may be a little wrinkled but you can still look FAB!
We got a doozy of a question from a reader about how to dress for a summer party:
“What do you wear to an outdoor party in July when the weather is 95 degrees and humid, and you are pushing sixty years old? How does one look cool and stylish and not frumpy? I like to be comfortable too, so I can forget about myself and focus on enjoying the company of others. I am 5’1″ and overweight.”
Summer weather poses quite a problem for women in their 40s and up, who are constantly concerned with coverage. It is a challenge to find a cool (literally and colloquially), age-appropriate outfit for summer gatherings. However, summer heat and humidity does not mean you have to throw sophistication and age-appropriateness out the open, screened-in window.
Example of a nice, white, lightweight top with some coverage.
We find that many women, when faced with what to wear to an event, will generally choose an all-black getup over something colorful. We get it – we love black. It’s safe, it’s flattering…but it’s also hot as heck! Instead, try white as your go-to neutral this summer. It’s much cooler in the sun, and can be just as flattering when worn correctly. One of our favorite looks for a wider woman is a monotone top and bottom. This “column of color” look makes you look taller and thinner, while evening out your proportions. Pair a white linen or gauze tunic with a white pant, and dress it up with embellished flats and a lightweight cotton scarf that are all the rage this summer!
(*for another, all-white outfit, please refer to JoJami’s outfit when she went to NYC)
Here’s an important tip to pulling off this outfit: wear nude colored undergarments that match your skin tone! There’s nothing worse than an obvious white panty under white slacks…have someone check you in full daylight to make sure there are no glaring panty lines before leaving for your party!
(This style from Saks.)
Using thin materials in natural fibers will also keep you fresh and breezy. Fabrics like linen, cotton, and silk are infinitely more breathable than synthetics that make up some summer clothes. This summer, we love that the long peasant skirt is back in style, beware these can make you look matronly. A much better option is a maxi dress, paired with some flat sandals. For ladies who are tall enough to pull it off, try a long, flow-y patterned skirt with a sleeveless scoop- or v-neck top. Just make sure you opt for wider straps if you choose to show off your arms – it will cover your bra straps and look much more age-appropriate.
(These styles are from Kohl’s.)
Finally, add some accessories to formalize and freshen up your outfit. You can wear all those stylish, clunky jewelry pieces to really add some flair! Wear a signature jewelry piece like a strand of chunky jade, a stretchy stone bracelet, or dangling earrings depending on the formality of the affair.
Layering these pieces can be fun too.
Here is a woman we met recently. She has on coral necklace that she bought years ago and has layered it with a thin crystal necklace.
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 layering necklaces can help spice up an outfit |
Don’t forget your feet! No matter what your size or shape, any woman can have fun with her shoes. Summer is the best time to find colorful heels or embellished sandals. Don’t forget the toes! Look elegant from head to toe by getting a great pedicure. In summer when you’re wearing less clothing, every detail counts!
(Accessories from Nordstrom’s)
Have fun, and stay cool!
Dear Glam Gals
Please advise. I’m a tall woman (1,76 m), inverted triangle with a little tummy. I was given some very long A-line skirts of good quality and would like to shorten them since they are my ideal skirt shape.
I have long, well-shaped strong, not skinny, legs with rounded calves and a tiny hint of X-leg. Which length should my skirts be to look good? I understand that long skirts are not really that fashionable right now and feel that shorter looks more modern.
Thanks in advance – you’ve been a great help since I discovered your site!
Best regards,
Sabine
Dear Sabine,
We agree that A-line skirts are the most flattering for every body type. They balance out a larger top half, and with the extra volume on the bottom, they even make your waist look thinner! Shortening the skirts to the knee is probably the best way to go. That way the thinnest part of your legs will be showing from underneath, and it’s not too short. You don’t want to go too far above the knee, because it will look too poufy, and too long not only shortens your body, but can also be rather dowdy.
However, if you want to try something new this season, you should definitely try a pencil skirt! With your height and figure, a pencil skirt will look really sexy, especially when it hits the bend at the back of your knee.
Good luck!
We’ve recently had a lot of women writing to us to ask us how to wear shorts after 40. Let’s start with what NOT to do:
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Don’t wear baggy cargo shorts. They are better suited to younger gals, and the pockets add extra bulk around your hips and thighs, which we definitely don’t need! |
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Don’t pick a short with pleats. Pleats tend to give you a pooch around your hips, and it’s hard to wear a longer shirt over them without bunching. |
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Don’t choose a style that is too short. Short shorts may be in for the younger set, but at over 40 this look could be very tacky. |
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Don’t choose a style that’s too long. When your shorts hit you below the knee or lower, it will look like you’re wearing capris that shrunk! |
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Don’t buy a short with a cuff around the thigh. This draws attention to the widest part of your leg. |
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Don’t wear a kitten heel or mule with a short. They tend to shorten your leg, and are too formal for this look. |
For an age-appropriate way to wear shorts, try these Dos:
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Do look for a simpler, sleeker line. A straight leg is best, especially when it fitted perfectly to your body. You’ll look taller and thinner! |
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Do pick shorts with a flat front. Most women over 40 look better with a shirt tucked out to camouflage a bulge around the midsection, and flat front shorts is more flattering and less bunchy than pleats under a shirt. |
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Do choose a short right at your, or just above, your knee. Your knee is likely to be the thinnest part of your leg, so you would want to draw the eye there by having your shorts cut off at the knee. |
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Do wear a chunkier heel, wedge, or flat sandal with your shorts. It’s a hipper look and the right formality. |
It’s amazing how many places you can find to wear some of this summer’s best dresses! We found a ton of great styles at Nordstrom’s, all under $150! Check out how you can wear them to all your summer destinations.
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At the beach.
Accessorize with: A wooden beaded necklace and sunscreen. |
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To a barbeque.
Accessorize with: Flat, embellished sandals and a sauce stain.
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As a bathing suit cover up.
Accessorize with: A big floppy straw hat and shades.
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To a summer wedding.
Accessorize with: Metallic heels and dangly earrings.
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To an outdoor party.
Accessorize with: Pearls and a cardigan.
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To a cocktail party.
Accessorize with: Big gold bangles and a slick up-do.
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A night out with the girls.
Accessorize with: A black leather clutch purse (with ballet flats inside!).
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To work.
Accessorize with: Button earrings and sensible pumps.
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Anytime!
Accessorize with: Gladiator sandals and a colorful handbag.
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Sigrid Olsen, artist/designer
If you’re over 40, chances are you’ve bought at least one item of clothing from designer Sigrid Olsen.
Last night, I (JoJami) had a chance to met up with Sigrid, who was one of the speakers at the Smart Talk Series in Wilmington, DE.
Olsen (age 55) said she started out in her career as an artist and morphed onto the fashion scene 25 years ago, heading up her name brand clothing empire. She designed for “real” women, using bright colors and simple classic designs that became her trademark.
However, a few years ago that all changed. With the economy sinking, Sigrid left her business to start fresh. “My company had become so large that I did not get to do what I loved to do, which is creative based.
“I ended up just being the head of my company and doing meetings all day. I had lost touch with my roots and doing my passion which is art…. I am much happier now.”
ISLA beach house
So what does that “now” look like?
Olsen, who lives in Gloucester, MA, now runs a retail boutique, called ISLA Beach house, just a few steps down the road from her home, where she sells her sunny, beach-inspired art, pottery and other unique finds.
“I like to find new artists and help promote them”, she said with a twinkle in her eye. She is obviously passionate about her new venture!
Not to be one to sit still, Sigrid, found Yoga soon after her “retirement” and now runs her Yoga/Art fusion retreats all over the world.
A self professed “doer” Sigrid Olsen is living her passion and thanks to her creativity we can now bring a piece of her colorful world into ours!
Deborah (circa 2004) in her favorite Sigrid Olsen outfit
A cute story… Deborah tells me that back in around 2003 after having two babies two years apart, she was feeling rather frumpy. She went to Florida and discovered Sigrid Olsen in Burdines and bought a ton of her bright fun clothes.
Deb was so thrilled she even emailed Sigrid to tell her how happy her clothes made her feel, and what a perfect fit they were. Here’s Deb a couple of years later in those same Sigrid Olsen clothes that she wore and wore.
Doesn’t the robin’s egg blue and peach go beautifully with her Spring complexion?
With spring in full swing and summer around the corner, you can’t help but notice all the adorable, crisp white fashions popping up everywhere. Finally, the sun is out and we don’t have to cover up anymore! Here are some from White House|Black Market that we LOVE!
This little white top has just enough of a subtle ruffle to be feminine but not overdone!
A white pencil skirt is a super way to cheer up your wardrobe. You probably already have tops and shoes that will match so you will be good to go with just one piece!
So, after a winter full of long sleeves and long pants, what do you do when your skin is just as glaring white as your new clothes? Many of you have asked us what to do. We say, get a glow – in a healthy way, of course! There are so many tanning products out there that help, but here are two that we can recommend.
For a subtle tan, try a product that is super easy to use, like Coppertone Endless Summer Sunless Gradual Tan Lotion. You just smooth this on every morning and night and your skin gradually darkens (FYI, it does takes a few days to really see the results!).
Can’t wait to wear white and need a quick tan? You can use a self-tanner like Neutrogena Sheer Bodytint for an instant, temporary tan.
These products are all on super sale over at Drugstore.com… not to mention free shipping!
Don’t forget these little tips for suntan success:
- All self-tanners recommend exfoliating the skin first.
- After your all buff, do not use any lotion.
- Pick up some rubber nurses gloves to put on the tanner. That way your hands won’t turn orange!
- Make sure the color is totally dry and developed and then rinse off before putting on your white top, though…if you put clothes on before the mousse or lotion dries, you will have brown stains on the inside of your clothes!
Now you can go out and feel Fabulous After 40!
Dear Deb and JJ,
I usually stop wearing sandals after Labor Day….does this “rule” still apply? If you want to wear a casual skirt the next two months (those of us up north) and it is still too warm for tights what do you put on your feet… especially if you do not look great in ballet flats or you do not feel they are age appropriate.
Just wondering,
L.R, Wayne, PA
Not after Labor Day!
Dear L.R.,
Really the rule is pretty much not to wear white after Labor Day, and that includes any dress, skirt, pant or shoe that is white. However, all your other summer things, including sandals, are perfectly fine. Basically, you want to wear a shoe that is in keeping with the weight and feel of the outfit.
If it is still warm enough in your area to wear a summer skirt or short, then by all means wear a sandal with it. If your summer tan has faded, then make sure to put on some self tanner so your legs won’t look washed out. So basically, put just your white pants, skirts and shoes away and enjoy the rest of the warm weather!
In a recent blog post, we mentioned that when it gets really hot out, a sun dress is a much better option than shorts. So, now with all the Summer sales in full swing, why not pick up a fresh frock to get you through this season!
Here are five fabulous after 40 looks, that we think you’ll love, as well as some great tips on the best way to choose a sensational sun dress that is age appropriate and still chic!
Crisp wrap:
1. Fit: This is a great fitting dress and will work on most body types.
2. Color 
retty on dark or tanned skin, but be careful as it might wash out those with fair skin.
3. Neckline: “V” necks are flattering on almost everyone except those with long necks.
4. Length: At the knee is easy to wear.
5. Fabric: Love this silk fabric. It is classy and can be worn to work, out to lunch or even a casual dinner!
Fun and Flowing:
1. Fit: This is an easy fitting dress and will work on most body types. The empire waist will hide any tummy bulge.
2. Color: This blue will look goon on most!
3. Neckline: These straps have some substance to them and are not too thin. They keep things sexy without showing too much skin!
4. Length: Not too short! This is a good thing…
5. Fabric: This flowing matte jersey knit, will look good from day into evening, and not wrinkle! (Hint: this dress will look best with a pair of Spanx underneath!)
Easy to take on and off:
1. Fit: Just pull this dress over your head, and your ready to go!
2. Color: This pretty print, will look best on those with pink skin undertones. ( summers and winters)
3. Neckline: Very flattering if you have a small to medium chest. These “flutter” sleeves will cover any flab but still keep you cool.
4. Length: If you have good knees, go for this peek a boo shorter look!
5. Fabric: This flowing matte jersey knit, can go casual with a flat shoe, to dressy with a dainty heel or wedge.
Stylish Class:
1. Fit: If you have a pear shaped figure, this is the dress for you! Even in a larger size, this dress flatters and says, Wow!
2. Color: Black and white, is always classic and elegant.
3. Neckline: If you have narrow shoulders this will balance you out.
4. Length: Still tasteful, slightly above the knee.
5. Fabric: All cotton, so it breathes!
Sassy Safari:
1. Fit: More conservative and casual. Be careful of styles with cap sleeves, they tend to look better on those that have arms on the thin side.
2. Color: This wild print will hide figure flaws around the tummy.
3. Neckline: Because it has a collar, it looks good on those with longer necks or if you have a short haircut.
4. Length: Above the knee, but still age appropriate.
5. Fabric: Wash and wear, poly spandex is easy to care for!
There you go. As Diane Von Furstenberg says: “Feel like a woman. Wear a dress!”
There is so much going on these days, it is hard to sometimes just stop and think, “What should I be doing to update myself?”
Anyway, where do you go to get info like that?
Read on, and take a look at our summer check list for women over 40… and make sure your on top of things to stay looking chic!
Are you wearing your tennis shoes around town?
Unless Your Maria Sharapova, there is no excuse to wear tennis shoes while out and about. With so many comfy flat shoe options these days why not try a comfortable flat or even a sneaker flat, both of which will have your legs looking better already.
Think Your Shorts Make You Look Short?
They probably do! Longer Shorts, which are more flattering on us, have they tendency to make most silhouettes look short and frumpy! Try exchanging your shorts for a flowy skirt or a sun dress. Both can be just as comfortable and so much more flattering and best of all will keep you cool!
What’s Happening on Your Upper Lip?
Have you been noticing a little extra hair on your lip lately? You really have to look close to see it, and look from the side view too! Yikes, it pops up all of a sudden, before you know it. It sad, but true, that it seems as though as we get a bit older our lip hair becomes more obvious. Try a simple waxing or Laser Hair Removal to rid you of that unwanted hair.
What’s In Your Wallet?
More importantly what does the outside of your wallet look like? Is it fat and bulgy? More people see your wallet then you think! Why not show off a little fashion sense in your accessories with a sleek new wallet. A great wallet looks chic on anyone!
How is your hair?
Have you found that your just pulling it back in a ponytail all the time, or just stuck in a hair rut? Be brave and bold and get out of your comfort zone. Start researching and imagining new ideas for your hair, go to a new salon, and have fun!
After a long cold winter wearing nothing but pants, sweaters and coats, it’s a thrill to be able to slip on sundress and step outside. This season sundresses abound in a gorgeous array of colors and styles. Here’s a rundown of the perfect one to suit your personality and body type.
Short Neck
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If you have a short neck, try a sundress like this that opens up at the collar to lengthen your neck and make you look taller and slimmer. This pretty pink dress works day or night. You can easily change up the look by adding a belt and wedge heels.The 3/4 length sleeves are a great way to hide flabby upper arms and do the trick on a breezy summer evening by the water. |
Pear Shaped
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If you have a pear shaped figure, your hips will be wider than your bust, so to create the illusion of a more well balanced body, you’ll want to play down your hips and build up your top half. This pretty blue 50′s style sundress is perfect for your pear-shaped figure. The wide belt will accent your lovely waist, while the soft pleats float gently over your bottom half. The boat neck widens across the bust and the cap sleeves balance out your hips.
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For Dramatic Personalities
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If you are long and lean, or rectangular and H-shaped with a thicker waist that you want to camouflage, then this cool summer shift dress is a great choice. But of course, not everyone can carry off such a loud pattern. This dress is definitely a statement piece for more dramatic personalities. No need for a necklace or lots of jewelry… just a simple bangle bracelette and a simple stud or hoop earring and you’re good to go.
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To hide a tummy
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If you have a tiny waist or an hourglass figure, don’t go near this loose baby doll style. But, if you have a little tummy to hide this a real winner. The loose flowy front covers things up nicely and the low scoop neck draws attention away from the tummy to the bust. This dress is so flexible it could double as bathing suit cover-up if you wanted to slip something on to go to the store. It’s got a great ethnic vibe, which is very current and hip.
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This empire style dress is also great for gals who have a little tummy to hide. The wide neckline brings attention to your face. The small print will look better if you have fine bone structure. If you are big boned a larger print will balance you out and be more flattering. The sundress pictured here is on the dressier side, since the fabric is crisp and perky! One caution, the border at the hem will draw attention to your legs, so if your legs are on the heavy side, this is not the best for you.
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Show off your Shoulders
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If you’ve been working out to get buff toned arms this is the dress to show them off in. Just add a little bronzer, slip on this canary yellow attention getter and let the compliments roll in. This color will look amazing on warmer skin tones. This dress has a Marilyn Munroe look, but you could tone it down by adding a pretty cropped cardigan. |
Add some curves
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Here’s a great dress to wear if you’re on the slim side and you want to play up your curves. This spring green sundress with white color blocked bands accents you in all the right places. Notice how it actually draws on curves. No jewelry needed at the neckline because there is already a lot happening there, but a great pair of earrings, either silver or gold, would bring this to life. |
Got a wedding coming up? Confused about what to wear? Afraid you’ll have to resort to recycling that old standby, hidden in the back of your closet?Here are the answers to the
7 Top Questions about What to wear to a Wedding
Q1. What should I wear to a Daytime Wedding?
The mood of a daytime wedding is light, fresh, and cheery, and so a
pretty dress in a happy color like this sunny yellow is a good choice for a wedding guest. Choose something that’s similar to what you’d wear if you were invited to a fancy garden party or special summer luncheon.
A floral print dress is ideal, and should be very easy to find because floral are one of the hottest fashion trends this Spring/summer 2008. Accessorize your dress with some cute heels, a great clutch, and if you are daring enough, a hat. How often do you get to go to a wedding? Have fun and dress up.
This blue floral halter dress is light and breezy and would be right at home at an
outdoor summer wedding.Q2. Can I wear Pants?
Yes, absolutely! If your legs are not your best asset or dresses are just not your thing, then pants are a fine choice. However, we’re not talking any old pair of slacks and a top. To look more elegant a
wear a solid color pantsuit or a beautiful blouse and a pair of Palazzo pants which are flowy and feminine, almost like a dress. Lighter colors like this pastel blue pantsuit are best for daytime weddings, and be sure to choose fabrics that are relaxed and a little more luxurious than everyday.
Q3. What should I wear to an Evening Wedding?
Easy Answer –
a cocktail dress! Just make sure it is not too flashy or sparkly or skin revealing. You don’t want to look like you should be at a disco. For example, a tight fitting red satin dress with sequins and a plunging neckline is too showy. This green silk charmeuse dress with goldtone beads has just the right amount of shine.
Love this coral chiffon dress with soft fluid skirt that would be heavenly to dance in.
Here’s another elegant style. This mauve stunner with bolero jacket gives you a little more coverage.
Another option for an evening wedding is to wear a dressy suit or a cocktail suit. Remember, it’s night. You mustn’t look the slightest bit corporate. No pinstripes, shirts, tweeds, serious suit styles and heavy materials. You need to wear a fitted suit, not a boxy suit; one that is softer, a little sexy, feminine and luxurious – the type of thing you’d wear if you were going out to a special dinner. Think sophisticated. (A very dressy pantsuit with this same feel would work too.)
Q4. Is it true you should never wear white ever? What about cream?
Sorry, that old rule of no white at weddings still stands because you never want to upstage the bride. The only time it is acceptable is to wear a tiny bit of white as a detail on a dress or within a pattern of a dress- but we’re talking tiny. Cream or beige is o.k. unless you know the bride is wearing cream. This form fitting shutter pleat cream dress with a touch of metallic had a cocktail feel and would look great at an evening wedding.
Q5. Can I wear Black?
While black is too dark and heavy for daytime weddings, a
black cocktail dress is very appropriate for an evening wedding. This black taffeta skirt with knit top would be chic.
Q6. What should I wear to black tie wedding?
A black tie wedding is most formal and calls for something very glamorous like you are going to a formal ball. Here’s where a full length Black dresswould be your very best choice, however a black cocktail dress would be acceptable too. If you don’t like black, then a single color dress in a rich color is elegant too. Also, a dress that is simple with, clean lines is what’s right for this elegant affair. No fussy details or frou-frou.
Always respect the fact that will be one of the most special days in Bride’s life. Honor her by putting some effort into what you wear and dressing up for the occasion, but
never try to outshine her. It’s her moment to in the spotlight. Make sure she feels like the Star.
1. Fresh Florals
Stepping into the stores this spring will be like wandering through a beautiful garden, because fashion is coming up flowers of every imaginable kind. Bright, bold floral and botanical prints are this season’s biggest hit.
If you’re over 40 be careful not to go overboard with too much pattern, frills and flounce, when a few blooms here and there will do. You can prune back this look and make it more subtle by choosing to accent a solid piece with a garden inspired blouse or pretty pair of flower detailed shoes. Another option – try a floral print that’s more modern, like this graphic brushstroke floral shift dress by Tory Burch which looks clean and chic.
2. Say Hello to Yellow
Bored with black? Then why not add some tropical punch to your wardrobe? Bold Citrus colors like orange, lime green and especially yellow are adding vibrancy and warmth to the new spring looks. Bright yellow looks classiest on grown-up gals when combined with a great neutral. For example yellow and white, or navy, grey or black. A single pop of color like this smart sunny trenchcoatis a fabulously fresh way incorporate this trend without looking like a fruit basket.
3. Hooray for Hollywood
Get ready for your close-up this spring as Old Time Hollywood Glamour returns to the fashion forefront. Silver Screen sirens from the 40’s and 50’s like Rita Hayworth and Marilyn Munroe are the inspiration behind drop dead vintage style gowns that nip in at your waist, caress your curves and exaggerate your feminine form.
You’re bound to feel like a movie star in these vintage ladylike creations. There’s lots of gold, satin, shimmer and shine out there –just what you want for your own red carpet moment. Try a strapless style with pearls – for a classic retro look, or choose a halter dress with sexy high heels to make you feel like a Hollywood pin-up.
4. Out of Africa
Fashion is marching to a different drum this spring- specifically the tribal earth beat of exotic Africa. You’ll see lots of wild animal prints and bold ethnic patterns, rich brown shades, taupes and khakis too. Be on the hunt for practical and easy Safari jackets, dresses and suits that are much softer looking and more wearable than ever before.
Accessorize this global look with a wide belt, sexy gladiator sandals, this perfectly primitive necklace that has multiple strands of colorful glass beads made of black onyx, tiger’s eye and red jasper.
5. New Nauticals
Ahoy! The Nautical Look has dropped anchor this spring. Designers are showing lots of navy, white and red along with some very chic nautical detailing. Wide legged sailor pants are a great choice this season. Dresses and blouses with boat knots and rope accents will also make you look ship shape.
Warning to voluptuous boomer babes- watch out for horizontal stripes which can make you look like shipwreck because they widen your bust and waist. A safe bet for anyone contemplating this new look is to test the waters with a nautical style accessory. Thissporty bucket tote with gold grommets and rope trim stylishly signals, smooth sailing ahead.
6. Ombre
Call it Ombre, dip-dye or whatever you want, but to boomer beauties who grew up in the late 60 and early 70’s, this new trend looks an awfully lot like tie dye. This season be prepared for a wave of color as designers present clothes that intensify in color from dark to light.
Not sure if you are ready to revisit this look? Worried you may look like an old hippie? The key to wear ability is to choose a subtle version of this trend, instead of donning something that looks like a messy children’s summer camp tie die craft project. Forget the I’m wearing every colour of the rainbow look and try something more simple like this this elegant column dress with its softly color graduated hues from yellow to white. It’s modern and very wearable for women 40+ alone or with a pretty pashmina.
7. Prints with Pizzazz
Bright bold graphic prints with pizzazz are being thrown in to the mix this spring. Scarf prints seem to be the latest thing. Light and airy, but loud and proud these beautiful silk dresses and tops look fabulous belted or as they are. Interesting pieces like this peacock blouson look especially beautiful with a simple, fresh pair of black or white pants.
If you love this Palm Beach Look, but worry you might feel too flashy in it, then try a tidy trimmed down version. A bold printed headscarf paired with huge Jackie O sunglasses is fun and chic, or try tying a bright floaty scarf onto the outside of your purse for true jet set style.
After a carefree summer of cotton capris and breezy sundresses, it’s exciting to get back into some serious fall clothes. But no sooner have you tucked away your summer wardrobe, when the weather takes a crazy turn from cool to sweltering.
What the heck do you wear when it’s hot as summer one day and nippy as Fall the next? Here are:
5 Things to wear during a change of season.
1. Thin Cashmere Sweater Set
You might think of cashmere as a winter fabric, but it’s actually perfect for transitional times during the year. Just look for a super thin cashmere sweater to fill this style gap. You can wear the tank alone under a suit jacket or pair the sweater set with a pair of dark medium weight capris. Always elegant, you can never go wrong with cashmere.
2. Long Sleeve Wrap Dress
A feminine wrap dress in a lovely silk blend is a perfect choice when you are not sure of the weather. They’re light but give you great coverage and can take you almost anywhere from shopping to a special dinner date. Wrap dresses also complement almost very body types and will give your figure a great shape. Try a pair of suede stretch boots with your wrap dress as a way to ease into fall. Also be sure to wear a great bra. You need to look perky in this v-neck style dress.
3.Vests
If you don’t have a fun cozy vest in your closet, this is a great item to pick up! It’s a handy choice to slip on or off depending on the temperature. For a casual look try a quilted vest (as long as it’s not too boxy) or experiment with a pretty suede one, with. maybe with even a little fake fur around the collar. Worn over a long sleeve tight t-shirt or crisp white blouse, this is a great casual look that can take you far!
4. Leggings
When it’s too cool for bare legs, but too hot for wool pants, leggings make a great transitional piece. Take a simple short dress or great comfy sweater and add some dark leggings. Then pair them with a pretty flat shoe. When the temperature drops you can switch to opaque hose and a boot.Leggings are also extremely comfortable so they make the perfect thing to wear on a plane when you flying from a warm climate to cool climate or visa versa.
5. Lightweight Stretch Knits
Do a little hunting and you’ll find designers like Susana Monaco who offer ultra thin wool/lycra mix and match pieces that are wonderful 12 months of the year. Don’t let the word wool scare you. Just try one on and you will be transformed because Susana’s clothes are so hip and comfortable.
You can start out by wearing them with a nice sandal or flat, and then as it gets cooler you can add the opaque tights and boots. Most of her pieces do not have any zippers or buttons and are meant to be just thrown on. Just add a chunky necklace and you’ve got your new running around around uniform.
With temperatures soaring… we’re all are trying to keep cool and still look great, but it’s easy to let your summer style slide. Here’s some lapses in judgment that we’ve seen this summer.
1. Capri pants +socks & running shoes
Capris are a cute sassy look that shows off your lower legs. Yes, they do tend to make your leg look a little shorter because they stop at the calf, but this can be balanced out by wearing a lovely kitten heel sandal or low wedge in the same color as your capris.
We’ve noticed a lot of gals on vacation who go on walking tours wearing capris with socks and running shoes! This is a lethal combination that makes you look short, fat and frumpy. If you need practicality and comfort, then try a cushioned flip-flop or ballet flat with your capris or instead wear shorts with running shoes for sporty look.
2. Crazy Crocs
Comfortable, fun, but keep your crocks at home. Crocks were originally garden shoes and we think that’s where they need to stay. Wear them around the garden, the pool, the seaside or cottage, but don’t wear them out grocery shopping or to a movie or anywhere else. These brightly colored, rubber shoes are a fad and scream childish. Do you really want to look like a kid when you are a grown woman?
3. Nude Hose with Sandals
If you are want to wear open toed shoes and are tempted to wear even the sheerest of hose with them, stop right there. Remember, nothing look tackier than his fashion faux pas. Many women are hesitant to use self tanners because they are worried about having orange legs, but let us assure you that they have come a long way and give the subtlest of result. Our pick for a fair skinned gal who wants a little shimmer is L’Oreal’s Sublime Glow.
4. Short Shorts
Who wears short shorts? Not women after 40, unless you’ve been digging things out of your teenage daughter’s closet to wear. Short shorts (especially cut off jean shorts) that let it all hang out are tacky and cheap outside of your own backyard.Save them for sun tanning and try an above the knee cotton skirt or walking short for going out.
5. Visible Pockets
One of the freshest looks for summer is a pair of crisp white pants. But beware if those pants come with big visible pockets. That’s all anyone will notice! When shopping for a new white pant, take note if the pockets are taking center stage. Especially those made with lightweight or sheer fabric make sure to take the time to have the pockets taken out by a professional seamstress for a much cleaner look.
