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September 25, 2012 5 Comments

Best Shoes for a Formal Dress

Deborah,

I  want to wear a  formal cocktail dress to husband’s annual work gala. There are lots out there to choose from but I haven’t bought one yet because I want to be sure I can find the right shoes first.  I’m short and always go for a high heel, but  I’m finding most of the heels out there are really high!  I also like the idea of a glitter shoe to match a  glitter purse I have but I will be doing a lot of walking and I’m not so sure they will be appropriate because I have to do a lot of walking, my age and the type of function it is.  

I need help…lots of help with this.

Make Your Legs Look a Mile Long!
If you choose a pretty shoe in a nude skin tone or a soft pink you will find that you have put the emphasis on the dress, which is a good thing.  However, the bonus with a skin tone shoe is that it will lengthen your legs!
 nude heel
Too Much Sparkle Will Look Cheap!
Trying to match your purse and shoe can be dangerous.  Sparkle on your handbag is enough. Trying to match it with a shiny shoe will be just too over the top.  Instead, keep it classy with a satin or leather shoe.

Silver High Heel Shoes

These silver high heel shoes would be to much with this dress.

Walking on Air
Cindy, you mentioned that you will be doing a lot of walking and didn’t want to wear too high of a heel.  Here is a nice option that is feminine and will be the right style with your dress.  Try to find a shoe that echos your dress in some way. If your dress is draped, then a draped satin shoe is nice.

Low Heel Shoes for Women

Low heel shoes for women are always a good choice if you are going to be dancing.

Pass on Straps
OK, so these look like they might match and be comfy I  can assure you that most shoes with skinny straps end up being a killer.  These sandals are too light looking and would work well with a cocktail dress in a light or sheer fabric like chiffon. Don’t wear them with heavy satin. They would look off balance.

Pass on Straps

Strappy sandals can be a killer.

For more ideas to look fabulous after 40 at your next formal affair, check out my ebook, Secrets to Looking Fab when you are the Mother of the Bride or Groom.

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5 comments on "Best Shoes for a Formal Dress"

  1. Joanne says

    October 6, 2012 at 7:06 am

    Ugh! I disagree on the dyable shoes. Too 1986 bridesmaids.

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  2. Lori Ann says

    October 1, 2012 at 7:32 am

    Just my opinion but that dress looks very short for someone over 40! I love the shoe suggestions though.

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  3. DELIA SADLER says

    September 27, 2012 at 6:17 pm

    I would go with a dyeable shoe with a slightly thicker heel, a max of 2 1/2 – 3 inches. Shoebuy.com has a brand called TOUCH UPS. A good brand with a lot of options. You could even go with a clear vinyl – – some have sparkle. I wore a 2 inch heel (clear w/sparkle) to my son’s wedding. A shoe I can wear for a lot of other occasions.

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  4. Dorina says

    September 25, 2012 at 9:22 pm

    Women over 50 should be more fashion and romantic, So we wear beautiful skirt, but I think the most important is that wee need someone to appreciate it,I think the best man should be the one who love us and we also love him! So if you are still single, Please join us seniorskiss.c o m to find your love!

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