How to style and fashion tips~ Fashion Flash
It’s our turn to host the Fashion Flash. Read on for some fresh fashion and style tips from some of the top over 40 bloggers! This week we are excited to introduce a new member of to our group, Jackie Silver from Aging Backwards.
Now here is a little taste of each of our fabulous group of Bloggers!
Black Cat Plus discusses her five faves in plus size fashion this holiday season. Read more
Back from the Beauty Bash and more with this week’s Fashion Flash!
We’re back from the NYC Beauty Bash (hosted by Fashion Flasher Geri Brin from Fab Over Fifty) and what a great time was had by all!
This week’s Fashion Flash host is Deborah Chase from the No Non-Sense Beauty Blog. Head on over to read about:
- Great recipes to help with menopause symptoms
- Come and drool over the new Christian Louboutin shoes
- Savor the fall fashions for the “curvy” gal
- Check out “quick” tips to speed up your make-up routine
What does hip and 40 look like?
Hi Fabulous ladies!
JoJami here in absolutely gorgeous, Asheville, NC!
Boy oh boy, was I ever surprised when I hit downtown Asheville to check out the shopping. Talk about artsy, funky and vibrant! Yes siree, did I have a blast just window shopping until I dragged my husband into this amazing boutique called Minx.

This table of shoes caught my eye...and this gal was dressed so cute! Love her flat loafers, comfortable and chic!
At first I thought that all the clothes were vintage but then I saw this display of new shoes and fell in love with these little black booties.

These black booties by Gidigio have the perfect size heel and the ruffle gives it a touch of softness!
Slipped those puppies on and it was love at first step… had to have them!
Now I want you to notice how adorable the sales gal is! Of course she is NOT 40 but I thought it was worth mentioning that her outfit would be age appropriate for any over 40 gal.
Moreover, many of you all have been asking…”What do I wear with straight legged jeans.?” Check out her flat loafers. This is as new trend for fall that we just adore!! Paired with a t-shirt and cropped short jacket it looks casual yet pulled together!
Then as my luck would have it, in walked the owner, Rebeccah Mark (who just turned 40, welcome to the club!) Read more
7 Summer Shoes and What to Wear with them
Even if you were born with the “style gene”, it’s tricky to figure out what shoes to match with what. This summer put your best foot forward, as we bring young 7 of the hottest shoe styles, plus ideas for how to pull an outfit together around them.
1. Ballet flats
2. Sandals
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The less dressed you are, the less shoe you need. That’s why airy flat sandals,work best with full-blown summer looks that says casual and relaxed. Pair sandals with breezy sundresses, maxi dresses, shorts, or loose linen pants. Steer away from boring brown or beige run of the mill sandals. Instead choose sandals that say “now”. Metallic colors, like this pair add a little glitz or shine. They are considered a neutral and work with almost anything. The rope detail gives these a summer nautical feel. |
3. Gladiator Sandal
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Don’t let summer pass you by without a sexy pair of gladiator sandals. They’re hip modern and look great with pretty much anything. A neutral shade like this looks fabulous with all white, which is very much in style this summer, or with any other color. |
4. Wedges
5. Platform
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Platforms are great, especially for shorter gals. They add height, yet are still relatively easy to walk in. Platforms can go from casual to dressy depending on the shoe. Stay away from platforms that are too heavy and clunky or you’ll end up looking like your teenage daughter. The thinner the platform the classier the look. This pair comes with the platforms built right into the shoes so you don’t see them on the outside. If you want to attract attention, just wear a platform with an A-line shirt, cotton shirt and fitted jacket, and enjoy the compliments. |
6. Dress shoes
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Never underestimate the power of a shoe-especially a dress shoe. Take a simple summer dress, match it with flip-flops and you have one look. Then pair it with some killer summer heels and you totally change the feel of your outfit. This season you can bring out a touch of your wild side by stepping out in shimmering snake-embossed wrapped heels from Michael Kors. They are a great way to jazz up an outfit or dress. Don’t forget to get a good pedicure! |
7. Sporty casual (running shoe)
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To look youthful, you’ve got to look current. So dump those boring heavy, white workout sneakers and experiment with trendier, sporty shoes. The Privo Ardea flat is a good choice. Cutouts detail the vamp of this sporty flat. You you can wear them with walking shorts, khakis, a nice sweat suit or perhaps a lightweight colorful straight leg jean. They be great for traveling when you go walking around Europe. |
For more help picking out the perfect shoes try Shoes-o-matic. Shoes-o-matic is a really fun tool. Just enter in your specifications, and up will pop an applicable suggestion. Click here to check it out! All shoes above from Nordstrom.
Platform shoes, would you wear these?
Good morning! JoJami reporting from gorgeous sunny Los Angeles:
Now here is a GREAT photo … my mother JoBee has been buying shoes from Lina (shown below) for years. She is one of the top sales people in the Saks shoe department. She recently called my mother and attached this photo and said: “You have to come in and try these shoes on…they are so comfortable and HOT!” Lina is an Age-mazing (41) and can really rock these shoes! I agree that these sky-high platforms are all the rage, but I am still torn if they are age-appropriate. Personally, I would not wear something this high, but we want to know, would you wear these shoes?
Comfy shoes for walking around Europe
Hi Ladies,
Love your style pointers! Going to Europe on vacation and want to pack only a few pair of shoes. I want a really comfortable pair of shoes for shopping/touring, but I want them to look good, too. Am I doomed to running shoes?
Lani
Hi Lani,
We get this question a lot. Most women understand it is not cool to be walking around European Cities in big, clunky white tennis shoes. So what can one wear that is practical, comfortable and stylish? Here are some options.
Fashion Flash: Are you obsessed with shoes?
It’s Monday so that means it’s time again for this week’s Fashion Flash! 
This week our host is Cat from Obsessed with Shoes and her blog is awesome!
While you’re there you can check out some of the topics our Fashion Flashers are discussing this week:
- supportive tips on weight loss if you are over 40
- Plus size models that are inspiring others
- how to exercise your way to happiness
- more on Botox
- and an in-home laser treatment that really works!
What’s a Fashion Flash you may ask? It’s our special group of bloggers that we feature weekly, who are keeping us up to date on a variety of over 40 fashion and beauty tips!
























