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What to Wear to a Winter Graduation – Outfits Ideas for Moms

June is the month most of us associate with college graduations, but December, January, and February are popular months for midterm grads. If your son or daughter is receiving their degree in winter instead of summer, what should you wear to look celebratory but appropriate?

Here are a few A+ ideas for what to wear to your child’s winter college graduation.

What to Wear to a Graduation Ceremony for Moms

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Look Professional

College graduation is like a business event, and as such, what you wear can range from business formal to business casual. In any case, you should look pulled together and professional, not glam and party-like.

You’re best to err on the side of conservative, so a suit, a lovely sheath dress, or a fit-and-flare dress works beautifully. Dresses can be worn with or without a jacket, and closed-toe pumps look most polished.

Another option besides a dress or suit is an elegant pair of dress pants and a pretty blouse or top. Think “classy work outfit,” and you can’t go wrong. Ann Taylor is an excellent place to find business-type dresses, pants, and jackets that are classic with a modern twist.

Mother of the Graduate Outfit - Beige Tweed Dress with Neutral accessories

 

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Keep Color and Pattern Elegant and Understated

Like weddings, graduations are important times when family photos are a big deal. Be sure to plan out what you will be wearing so the pictures are timeless. Choose solid colors or wear a classic print. Florals are the most obvious and always look right. Choose small to medium floral prints that don’t overpower.

This blue and white dress above is a sweater dress, which is a little less formal than a non-knit dress but works well for less formal graduations.

What to Wear to a Graduation Ceremony for Moms

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Lower Heels Will Be Comfier

Unless you don’t mind standing for hours in high heels, I’d suggest low-heeled shoes or flats, as grad ceremonies can be very long with a lot of standing and mingling. A chunky heel is always more comfortable than a high, skinny one. Don’t wear brand-new shoes. Work them in first.

 

Don’t Go Overboard with Jewelry

Jewelry doesn’t have to be boring, but it shouldn’t be a distraction. Big, chunky costume jewelry should stay at home. This isn’t the time to pile it all on.

A pair of modern, sophisticated gold or silver earrings that aren’t too large or too long and dangly suit the mood of graduation. A fine necklace or bracelet is classy, too. Choose a good-quality structured leather bag—nothing too trendy, soft, or flimsy, which reads too casual.

The Last Word on What to Wear to a Graduation as a Guest – For Moms

If you live in pants and it’s been a while since you’ve worn a nice dress, you may notice some middle-aged lumps and bumps you are not happy with, but that’s no problem. A little shapewear goes a long way in making your outfit look streamlined, sleek, and polished.

Have a wonderful graduation, Mom, and send me your graduation outfit photo to post after the event. Email it to info@fabulousafter40.com

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Deborah Boland

Deborah, a former Fashion & Lifestyle TV host and Image Consultant, understands the style challenges women face in their 40s, 50s, and 60s. As the founder of Fabulous After 40, she helps women tweak their chic and embrace fashion with confidence—so they always look and feel amazing.

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