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Do Turtlenecks Camouflage Turkey Necks?

Turtlenecks have always been a cold-weather classic. They feel polished, cozy, and timeless — it’s no wonder women reach for them year after year. But once you’re in your 40s, 50s, or 60s, you might start to wonder: do turtlenecks really camouflage a “turkey neck,” or do they bring more attention to it?

Do Turtlenecks Really Hide a Turkey Neck?

I’ve found that a snug, traditional turtleneck rarely hides what you want it to. In fact, it usually does the opposite. A close-fitting neckline can draw the eye straight to loose skin, jowls, or fullness under the chin. And if you have a shorter neck or a fuller bust, it can add bulk and make you look heavier on top.

Many women write to me saying, “I thought a turtleneck would cover my neck, but I feel like it makes me look older.” If that sounds familiar, you’re not imagining it. The very feature that makes a turtleneck sleek and streamlined can also highlight the areas we’d rather not emphasize.
black turtleneck sweater and vest for women over 50

Why Color Matters

It’s not just the neckline — color matters, too. Black turtlenecks have that Audrey Hepburn chic factor, but once you hit midlife, black right under your face can be harsh. It creates contrast, deepens shadows, and can wash out your complexion. I have to wear a lot more makeup if I wear black these days!

Softer shades like navy, heather gray, camel, or ivory can feel far more flattering, while still giving you that classic, sophisticated look.

Too Darn Hot!

There’s also the comfort factor. A thick knit wrapped tightly around your throat can feel stifling. Many women find turtlenecks too hot after menopause. If you’re constantly tugging at your collar or feeling flushed, that’s your body’s way of saying it’s time to try something else.

flattering cowl neck sweater for women over 50

This cowl neck is a softer, flattering choice for us mature gals if you are feeling self-conscious about your neck.

Flattering Alternatives to Turtlenecks

Luckily, you don’t have to give up cozy sweaters — there are plenty of flattering neckline options that give you warmth without the drawbacks:

  • Mock Necks: A shorter version of the turtleneck. They offer coverage without overwhelming your face and are easier to wear with jewelry.
  • Cowl Necks: Soft, drapey, and forgiving. They draw the eye to your chest rather than your chin, adding a feminine touch.
  • V-Necks and Scoop Necks: Showing a little skin is youthful and elongates the neckline. Add a necklace to draw the eye down even more.
  • Scarves: A lightweight scarf adds coverage, softness, and a pop of color. Plus, you can adjust it if you get too warm.
  • Collared Shirts or Sweater Layers: Wearing a blouse or shirt layered under a cardigan or crewneck sweater frames the face without the “all buttoned up” look.

More flattering alternatives to turtlenecks here.

When Turtlenecks Can Still Work

All that said, I’m not here to ban turtlenecks completely. Some women look fantastic in them. If you have a long neck, a smaller bust, or love the sleek, minimal vibe, go for it. Just keep these tips in mind:

  • Choose a lighter knit so it doesn’t feel heavy or stiff.
  • Opt for softer, face-flattering colors instead of stark black.
  • Balance the look with bold earrings, a statement necklace, or a modern jacket.
  • Experiment with layering — a blazer or cardigan over a turtleneck keeps it fresh and less severe.

Final Thoughts, Do I, Deb?

At the end of the day, style should make you feel confident — not self-conscious. If traditional turtlenecks highlight your neck or make you feel uncomfortable, don’t force it. There are so many other sweater styles that are flattering, cozy, and easier to wear. Personally, I love soft cowl necks and open V-necks because they feel modern, feminine, and forgiving. Sometimes, showing just a little skin is the most youthful choice of all.

FAQs

Are turtlenecks flattering after 50?
They can be — but only if you choose a softer knit, flattering color, and style it with modern accessories. For most women, mock or cowl necks are a safer bet.

What’s the best neckline to hide a turkey neck?
Cowl necks, lightweight scarves, and open V-necks with jewelry are all more forgiving and help draw the eye away from the chin area.

Should I stop wearing black turtlenecks as I age?
Not necessarily, but black can be harsh. Try balancing it with a colorful scarf or statement earrings, or swap in softer dark neutrals like navy or charcoal.

Are turtlenecks too hot for women in midlife?
For many, yes. Hormonal changes can make you more heat-sensitive, so lighter knits, open necklines, or removable scarves are more comfortable choices.

What’s the difference between a turtleneck, mock neck, and cowl neck?
A turtleneck folds up high on the neck, a mock neck is shorter and less bulky, and a cowl neck drapes softly with extra fabric, creating a flattering frame for your face and chest.

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Deborah Boland

Deborah, a former Fashion & Lifestyle TV host and Image Consultant, understands the style challenges women face in their 40s, 50s, and 60s. As the founder of Fabulous After 40, she helps women tweak their chic and embrace fashion with confidence—so they always look and feel amazing.

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14 thoughts on “Do Turtlenecks Camouflage Turkey Necks?

  1. Hi Deborah,

    I live in Australia and absolutely love your website !!!!!

    I have a leopard print wrap dress which is absolutely gorgeous, but am wondering at 47 years of age, am I able to wear it? It has lovely warm colours, but not sure if I can get away with wearing it.

    Regards, Seana

    1. Hi Seana,
      Australia, Wow! Great to have you! Yes, you can absolutely wear that dress at any age. A wrap dress is a classic style that is perfect for 40+ and a leopard print gives it a little sizzle. I’m sure you will look fab. Did you check out this post? Read it through and follow the links. It will give you some pointers on how to wear it. http://bit.ly/1rtiw1T
      Cheers! Deborah

  2. I have been noticing this problem for a few years now-am now 55. I’ve seen some “split” mock turtlenecks in a few catalog stores that are much more flattering on the older necks. They give you that lengthening little V. As for black-with the exception of the summertime and a tan, I’m afraid it’s over for me. Always stick with charcoal or brown as the other is just too harsh looking against my skin.

  3. Deborah,

    I enjoy your articles and postings. However, I don’t understand why your models are generally way UNDER 40 when the whole point of your site is fabulous AFTER 40. If you could use some age appropriate models and some models with a ‘little extra’, that would be great.

    You both look FABULOUS, but not all of us do. I would love to see models and ideas for women over 40 who…. well, aren’t size 2 (or even 8)…

    Thanks!

    1. Hi Gwenn,
      The models are way under 40 because that’s all that is out there. You see we use pictures from internet catologues and magazines, and for some crazy reason they don’t seem to think that women over 40 buy clothes! I’d love to be able to find some sites that have beautiful clothes and use 40+ models, so if you find any please let me know. In the meantime, I’m stuck with you having to use your imagination a bit. When is the retail and advertising industry going to wake up?

      Cheers, Deborah

  4. Black is my staple color but I’m rethinking that after seeing the pictures of Diane Keaton…hopefully it’s better lighting and a little airbrushing.

    1. Hi Mary,
      There is definitely some airbrushing going on in that second one. Still, black can make you look like you’ve got one foot in the grave if your skin and hair are fair.

    2. Hi Mary,
      LOL.. you are probably right about that, however, the point is still well taken. A fun test is to go into a well lit dressing room with a black turtleneck and a colorful one. You should see the difference and find yourself drawn to the colorful one.

  5. Deborah,
    I like Michael Kors turtlenecks They’re soft, feminine, modern, simple in design– and “sexy”. The turtle neck like the tee shirt has been a wonderful staple but as you age it constricts the neck –so a good jawline sure helps. I agree (and have blogged) that scarves can easily affect the look of a turtleneck–minus the bondage. Bruno Cucinelli and Loro Piana make gorgeous scarves that are soooo soft—you won’t want to take them off!
    PS Diane has never liked her neck–even in her youth and always wore high collars, etc (except notably and happily in “Something’s Gotta Give!”). Agreed- she looks so much better in the airbrushed ad ,lying back (so no gravity pull), and in a lighter color than in the “real” life snapshot.
    Best,Sherrie

    1. Hi Sherrie,
      Thanks for the great scarf tips!! Can’t wait to check them out! Yes, you caught me trying to make a point…(obvious, airbrushing…) however we still stick to our guns that a black turtleneck can potentially be aging on some women! Anyway…you have to admit, we ALL have way too much black in our closets and how fun to be told to try something different! Love hearing your voice and wonderful tips here at Fabulousafter40!! Cheers!

    1. Yes, True….If you have a lot of very loose skin around your neck, then disguise it with a scarf. But for a smaller amount that gets pushed up by wearing a turtleneck -a cowl neck is a good alternative.