What To Wear To a Beach Wedding as a Guest: A Complete Guide
Beach weddings are relaxed, romantic, and more popular than ever. But if you’ve never been to one, you may be struggling with what to wear. Should you dress casually or wear something more dressy, and how do you nail that beachy, tropical vibe?
Today, I’m discussing the different types of beach weddings with examples of what you should wear to look perfect in Paradise!
Yellow Eyelet Sundress | Blue Maxi Dress | Pink Floral Midi Dress
If you thought all beach weddings were alike, you might be surprised. Yes, some are the small, laid-back, toes-in-the-sand type – think faded denim and gauzy boho maxi dresses while others can be quite dressy and call for elegant, colorful cocktail wear. Let’s dive a little deeper into the three different Beach wedding guest dress codes.
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Dressing For a Beach Wedding: 3 Types
Casual Beach Wedding
A casual beach wedding is the most relaxed, low-key type of beach wedding. It takes place during the day on the sand, and the reception is held outside on a patio or at a local restaurant.
Pretty sundresses and beachy maxi dresses are the most popular things to wear, but if you prefer pants, you can wear linen pants with a colorful top. A cute jumpsuit is also appropriate casual beach wedding guest attire for women. Men should wear khakis or linen pants and a short-sleeve shirt.
Semi-Formal Beach Wedding
A semi-formal beach wedding is more upscale and elegant. It takes place in the late afternoon/evening in a beautifully decorated area on the beach. The ceremony is followed by cocktails on a patio, and the reception is often inside a hotel.
A semi-formal beach wedding calls for colorful, beachy cocktail wear, dressy summer tea dresses (midi length), and maxis. Think resort chic. Men should wear khakis or linen pants and a light sports jacket with no tie.
Pink Floral Chiffon Gown
Formal Beach Wedding
Formal beach weddings are more rare. They take place in the late day/ evening and are glamorous and sophisticated. For a formal beach wedding, you should wear a long gown. Men need to wear a suit. Whatever type of beach wedding you’re invited to, they all have one thing in common – a relaxed, beachy summer vibe.
What to Wear to a Beach Wedding – 10 Tips For Guests
1. Choose Cool, Lightweight Fabrics
Naturally, the weather plays a big part in what to wear to a beach wedding. Even though you’re by the water, it’s likely going to be very hot. Lightweight materials that breathe and don’t stick to your skin are ideal.
For example, cotton, linen, and plant-based fabrics are perfect for a casual beach wedding because they will keep you fresh. For a dressier oceanside ceremony, floaty chiffon, organza, silk, and polyester blends are breezy and beautiful.
2. Don’t Be Afraid of Bright Colors
Bright colors are fun and upbeat for a beach wedding. They don’t absorb heat, so they’re much cooler to wear than dark colors like black, navy, brown, gray, and olive. Seaside hues like blue, green, turquoise, pink, sand, and coral mirror the surroundings and fit the vibe of a beach wedding. Tropical island brights like parrot green, banana yellow, fiery red, and sunset orange also look fabulous in exotic settings.
3. Prints Welcome
As for prints – have fun! Water/ocean-inspired prints and lush florals look especially good. If the bride has a color palette she would like guests to adhere to, consider her color palette and look for shades that flatter your skin tone. Some brides want all their guests to wear white, which can be fun to shop for.
4. Flowy Breezy Fabrics
Since you are in a breezy tropical environment, it makes sense to wear something more natural and flowy. Look for dresses with movement. Wrap dresses, dresses with tiers, and ruffles are pretty, too. Fabrics like eyelet and chiffon are perfect.
5. Maxi Dresses are Perfect For Beach Weddings
A short dress can blow in the wind. Long, flowing maxi dresses are perfect for seaside weddings, and these days, there are so many to choose from. Spaghetti straps, strapless, one-shoulder, or off-the-shoulder, are super romantic.
A halter-style maxi is beachy and a little sexy too! Strapless, off-the-shoulder, and boho styles fit the carefree feel of the beach. Another option – is the high-low maxi. It’s longer in the back than the front to show off your beautiful tanned legs! If you have always wanted a reason to wear a long, beautiful summer maxi, this is it.
6. Have Fun with Accessories
A beach wedding is about adventure, so bring out the buried treasure! Big, colorful beads, shells, gold trinkets, raffia, wood, turquoise, and coral jewelry go so well with the seaside theme.
7. Jumpsuits are Popular
If you are not a dress gal and prefer pants, think about a jumpsuit. Long or cropped, a flowy jumpsuit makes a modern beach wedding guest outfit.
8. Low Sandals Make the Most Sense
Closed-toe shoes are too heavy and serious for a beach wedding. Instead, choose dressy sandals. (Make sure you have a good pedicure!)If the happy couple plans to take their vows right on the beach, don’t wear sandals with high heels because they’ll just sink into the sand. If the invitation says bare feet are okay, but you prefer to wear shoes, go for flat, glamorous sandals with a sexy touch of bling.
Some beach ceremonies take place on the grass or on a hotel patio. In this case, consider wedges or block heels because they are more comfortable, keep you balanced and your heels won’t get stuck in any cracks. Avoid flip-flops, or worse, Birkenstocks! They’re too casual, even for a laid-back beach wedding.
9. Take a Wrap
Don’t let the breezy beach wind spoil the day for you. A light wrap is very handy and will protect your arms from the sun if the ceremony runs long. A wrap is also handy in the evening when things cool down.
10. A Hat is a Good Idea
If you are worried about getting too much sun, or you just want something a touch dramatic in such a romantic setting, then a big sunhat is acceptable. But make sure it is well secured in case it tries to blow away in the middle of the ceremony. And don’t forget the sunglasses – a necessity to be sure!
11. Keep Hair and Makeup Soft
Beach weddings = Natural, so be sure that your make-up and hair doesn’t look too done. Keep it soft and loose in keeping with your outfit, and expect your hair to get blown around a bit. Don’t forget the sunscreen!
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Good morning Deborah, I am the bride’s grandmother, and I am 75 years young! I have no idea what to wear for a beach wedding! Can you help? Thanks
Hi Roberta, Beach weddings are becoming quite popular. You will want to wear a dressy sundress, a pair of flowy pants, or a long summery maxi. Here’s an article that should help:https://www.fabulousafter40.com/what-to-wear-to-a-beach-wedding/
Loved the Bohemian off-shoulder dress for a beach wedding. Where could I locate a dress like this?
Hi Shann, That dress has sold out. Here is something similar:https://rstyle.me/+yEB2zYK39t847BhLZ-DmZA. It’s cute too!
Hello, how are you doing? :-) I love that lovely floral dress you have pictured above. Thanks, heaps for your excellent articles! :-)
What do I wear to an early afternoon, casual wedding at a resort in northwest Idaho in June? I am 55, 5’5″, 148 LBS. The weather is supposed to be 6o high and 30 low. I am from Virginia, and it’s hot and humid here.
Help! What if you don’t wear sleeveless dresses? What about a shrug? I don’t know if that is too youthful for me, I don’t want to look too young, yet a stylish dress with a sleeve is so hard to find.
Hi Kathy,
Yes, a shrug is acceptable… or with a Pashmina. A 3/4 sleeve dress is good, or an off-the-shoulder dress; they can keep you cool while still covering!
Unless you are a Demi Moore over 40, I suggest a more conservative option for a wedding. In these photos, the models are most likely late 20’s mid 30’s. There are some lovely dresses out there that are more “flow-ey,” and don’t forget your dress shrug. The indoors will be chilly, and one must have buffed arms or a shrug. Too, remember the leg make-up. The average woman over 40 should not wear above-the-knee dresses with bows. There are those exceptions with firm bodies, knees, and botox, of course…
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I am so glad that you covered this topic. Last year I had an August wedding and spent days trying to find something that felt right. I never did and wore a navy blue linen dress that did not feel festive. I have another wedding in late July, and I know what to look for with your perfect guidelines. I will send you a pix of my final choice. N now you can explain what business casual is for women our age?
Hi Deb,
LOL. Ok, I will tackle that one soon!!! Thanks for writing in, and please do send me your picture!