Best Self-Tanners for Women Over 40 (That Aren’t Orange and Don’t Settle into Wrinkles!)
Like a lot of women my age, I spent my teenage years lying out in the sun and getting some pretty bad sunburns. Back then, we didn’t think much about the long-term damage. But eventually I realized (after a stern warning from a dermatologist), I wasn’t getting a healthy glow at all—I was speeding up wrinkles, sun spots, and premature aging, and I could even get skin cancer.
So I gave up tanning.

That said, every spring and summer, I still crave that little bit of warmth that makes my skin look healthy and vibrant. I don’t want to look pasty and washed out like it’s the middle of winter. I just want a subtle golden glow that makes me look refreshed.
That’s where self-tanner comes in.
The trick is finding one that looks believable. Some formulas are so dark they overwhelm fair skin, while others cling to dry patches, settle into fine lines, or leave you looking more orange than sun-kissed.
Over the years, I’ve tried quite a few products in search of that natural-looking glow. Below are the self-tanners I think are worth considering, including the one I’ve personally used for more than a decade and still reach for every summer.
The Self-Tanner I Keep Coming Back To

My Pick: Jergens Natural Glow Firming Daily Moisturizer
If I had to choose just one self-tanner, this would be it.
I’ve been using Jergens Natural Glow Firming Daily Moisturizer for at least ten years, and I still buy it every summer. As someone with fair skin and light hair, I don’t want to look like I’ve spent two weeks on a tropical beach. I simply want my skin to have a healthy, warm glow that looks natural.
What I love most about Jergens is that it’s gradual and forgiving. You stay in control of the color, so it’s almost impossible to overdo it.
Here’s my little routine: If I know I have a wedding, party, vacation, or special event coming up, I’ll start applying it right after my evening shower for one to three nights in a row. That’s usually enough to give me exactly the amount of color I want.
Then I let it fade naturally for a couple of days before applying it again for a night or two as needed. I just keep repeating that cycle throughout the summer whenever I want to maintain a soft, gorgeous glow.
For me, it’s perfect. It never overwhelms my fair coloring or makes me look unnaturally tan. Instead, it simply warms up my skin, so I look fresh, healthy, and like I’ve spent a little time outdoors—even when I haven’t.
What to Look for in a Self-Tanner When You’re Over 40
As our skin matures, not every self-tanner performs the same way. Here’s what I look for:
- Hydrating ingredients. Dry skin and self-tanner don’t mix. Ingredients like hyaluronic acid, aloe, and coconut water help keep skin looking smooth and plump.
- Skin-loving formulas. Some products include antioxidants, peptides, or firming ingredients that give mature skin an extra boost.
- Natural-looking color. The best self-tanners add warmth without turning orange or looking streaky.
- Buildable coverage. I much prefer formulas that let me add color gradually, instead of committing to an instant deep tan.
- Gentle ingredients. Mature skin can be more sensitive, so I appreciate formulas that feel nourishing instead of drying.
Other Self-Tanners Worth Trying

St. Tropez Self-Tanners
If you’re new to self-tanning, St. Tropez is a wonderful place to start. It’s been a favorite for years because it consistently creates a natural-looking tan without a lot of fuss.
The Purity Bronzing Water Mousse is lightweight, smells fresh, and won’t leave you worrying about stained sheets. If you like a deeper bronze, the Classic Bronzing Mousse develops into a rich, warm color that still looks believable. I recommend moisturizing dry areas first and using a tanning mitt for the smoothest finish.

Tan-Luxe The Gradual Illuminating Tan Lotion
This is a lovely option if you prefer to ease into your color. Rather than waking up dramatically darker, the tan develops gradually over several applications.
Tan Luxe is also wonderfully hydrating, making it a great pick if your skin tends to be dry. If subtle and sophisticated is your style, you’ll probably enjoy this one.

Isle of Paradise Self-Tanning Drops
These little drops let you customize your tan. Just mix a few drops into your favorite moisturizer and apply as usual—the more drops, the deeper the tan. If you don’t have time for a full self-tanning routine but still want a little color, this is ga reat. option Plus, you can tan without changing your skincare routine.

Bondi Sands Aero Self-Tanning Foam
If you want a deep, vacation-worthy bronze, Bondi Sands is the way to go. It’s an aerated mousse that’s lightweight but packs a punch in the color department. Bonus: It has a coconut scent that makes you feel like you’re on an island getaway. They also have a gradual tanning milk that I’ve read great things about.

Beauty by Earth Self-Tanning Lotion & Mousse
For those who prefer cleaner beauty products, Beauty by Earth has developed quite a following. The formulas use naturally derived DHA from sugar beets and include moisturizing ingredients that are kind to the skin.
The color builds slowly, which I actually see as an advantage. It gives you plenty of control and reduces the risk of ending up darker than you intended.
How to Apply Self-Tanner for the Most Natural Finish
No matter which tanner you choose, application is everything. Here’s how to get the best, most natural-looking results.
- Exfoliate First – Use a gentle scrub or exfoliating mitt to remove dead skin. Dry, flaky patches will soak up tanner and turn darker.
- Moisturize Dry Areas – Apply a thin layer of lotion to elbows, knees, ankles, and wrists before applying self-tanner. This prevents them from grabbing too much product.
- Use a Mitt – Always use a tanning mitt or glove to blend the tanner. Your hands will thank you.
- Start Light, Build Up – It’s easier to add more than to remove too much. Start with a light layer and build gradually.
- Wait Before Dressing – Let the tanner dry for at least ten to fifteen minutes before putting on clothes to avoid stains.
- Maintain with Moisturizer – Hydrated skin keeps your tan looking fresh longer.
For me, the best self-tanner isn’t the one that makes you look tan—it’s the one that makes you look healthy. A little warmth on the skin can brighten your whole complexion and give you that fresh, rested look that’s so flattering in the spring and summer. Think of it as a little touch of stardust for your skin!
How about you? Do you use self-tanner? If so, what’s your go-to for a natural-looking glow? Let me know so I can test it out!








Self tanners always turn my age spots dark and make things worse, and the make up leg makeup turns my sheets, brown, or beige. I like my white sheets, but I’d like something that would cover up my age spots.
I completely understand—that’s a common frustration. Unfortunately, most self-tanners will darken age spots because those areas absorb more color than the surrounding skin. And many leg makeup products can rub off on clothing and bedding.
Hi Kathleen, If your goal is simply to make the spots less noticeable, I’d skip self-tanner and look for a transfer-resistant body makeup or body foundation. They tend to give a more even look without developing darker over existing pigmentation. Just be sure to let it dry completely and set it with a light dusting of translucent powder or a setting spray to minimize transfer.
For a longer-term solution, you might also ask a dermatologist about treatments for age spots, such as prescription creams, chemical peels, or laser treatments, which can be very effective.
In the meantime, if anyone has found a body makeup that truly stays put on white sheets, I’d love to hear about it too!
Hi Deb……..I use the same thing as you, the Jergens natural glow, and mix the two shades: light, medium & and darker. It works perfectly for my skin tone and adjusts as needed for a darker or lighter look. I also want to try the St Tropez this summer. Thanks for the list!!
Hi Bonnie, I’ve heard good things about St. Tropez and they have been around a long time. Maybe I’ll check that out too. Thanks!
Does the Jergens tanner rub off on your sheets if you put it on before going to bed? This is my number one frustration with tanners.
Hi Paula,
I usually apply it in the morning, but I have also applied at night. I’ve had no problem with that since it is very light in color, but I always make sure my skin is totally dry before I hop into bed. I like to apply it about an hour before bed, after a shower. Hope that helps.Thanks for popping in. Cheers, Deb
Westmore Beauty has an awesome tanner that lasts through 3 days of showers. For mature women, it gives nice coverage.
Hi Kathy, Thanks for the tip. Where do you get that?