I’m 45, recently divorced, back on the dating scene and had no idea how to dress. What can I wear that looks sexy but isn’t so skimpy it reveals everything? Thanks, Liz P.
I get this question all the time. Who wants to go out looking like a 21-year-old dressed for a night of clubbing? Where’s the fine line between looking sexy and looking sleazy, especially at 40, 50 and beyond?
My answer is always the same. If you want to look feminine, alluring and classy, a wrap dress is perfect for a date. Whether on a first date with someone you just met or out for a romantic night with your spouse, here are five ways to wear a wrap dress to heat things up.
1. Choose a Flirty Print
Sure you can always find a black wrap dress, but it doesn’t capture the spirit of the dress or the excitement of a date.
I’d suggest that in a dating situation you go for a brighter color and a fun pattern ( like an animal print, bold floral or graphic print).
This will make you look lively and a little playful. There are thousands of wrap dresses for women out there like this, so they won’t they won’t be hard to find.
2. Go for Silk, Silk Jersey or a Soft Fabric
Most wrap dresses are made from some kind of soft fabric, and that’s what you want. It has to look and feel good on your skin to be alluring, so in case you do find a wrap dress made of crisp cotton (and there are some out there in summer) stay away. Silk wrap dresses for women are much sexier.
3. Consider Shapewear
Wrap dresses follow your curves and enhance your figure, so it’s important to have a clean look. If you are worried about bra or panty lines, or any little lumps and bumps, I’d suggest you try some shapewear, like Spanx to erase these problems. You’ll be amazed how a lightweight, stretchy shapewear short can smooth things out and make you look toned and slender.
4. Wear Alluring Jewelry
Did you know if you want to look sexy your jewelry should be a little bigger and have some dangle? It should move when you move. Same goes for your hair- No stiff hairdos.
5. Don’t Step Out the Door Without Heels
If there was ever a time to wear heels, it’s with a wrap dress. Flats don’t cut it, especially when you want to flaunt your femininity. Show off your legs by adding a couple of inches. A bit of height enhances the style of this dress and makes you look lovely and leggy.
Have fun Glam Gal!
p.s. More interested in how to look professional in a wrap dress at work? I wrote a post about that too!