Cyndi Spivey – A 40+ Blogger with Grace and Beauty

I remember my first blogging conference, The rewardStyle conference in Dallas in 2015, where I met fellow blogger Cyndi Spivey. I had such a lovely time with this warm and friendly fashionista that I wanted you to meet her as well.

Cyndi hails from a small town just outside of Lexington, Kentucky, and is the creator of Grace + Beauty, a Christian fashion blog. This 49-year-old wife of a pastor loves to blog about faith and fashion, all while spreading the deeper message that true beauty begins on the ins s are drawn to Cyndi’s personality and real lifestyle, which are pretty, practical, and modern.

Here is my interview with this Fabulous After 40 Styleblazer.

Deb: You have an interesting angle to your blog. Have you considered combining a Christian message?

Cyndi: I get asked this question a lot, but for me, it was a no-brainer I’ gi I I’,’anandI’mgirlo dress up and wear makeup  I  ta e  feeling like I needed help with my style after turning 40, and I assumed other women might feel the same way, so I started blogging about it.

Truthfully, I believe that beauty begins on the inside, and what’s inside is a passion for sharing Christ, and this journey I’m in is fulfilling. I’m becoming more like Christ each day. It’s easy, or pretty honest, I’m mine. I’I’mot intending.

I combined both of these passions and created Grace + Beauty, and for some crazy reason, it worked!

Deb: Can you tell us a little bit about your style and how you like to dress?

Cyndi: I would definitely say I have a classic Southern style with touches of trendy sprinkled in. Is that the lead? I have a classic southern look, but I like to feel young, and adding an occasional trendy piece helps keep my wardrobe modern.

Deb: This blog is dedicated to you. Does she have a big influence on your style?

Cyndi: My mom passed away in 2009 from cancer, and she is the one who introduced me to the blogging world.  She influenced every part of my life, was a lady through and through, and loved a classic style.

The greatest gift my mom gave me was introducing me to Christianity. I couldn’t tell you the impact it has had on my life.

Deb: You focus on practical, stylish everyday outfits. What should men over 40 consider when putting together a wardrobe like this? 

Cyndi: As we age, it’s essential to find clothes that fit and work well with our body type.  Once you know what to wear, getting dressed is much easier.

Deb: What trends do you love?l  Tr d  y u would. Tyndi: Oh my, I’m moving the trend. It’s all, and I’m not to it. I think it’s a lot of fun. FiFit’s sove overalls, tassels, and flare-leg jeans and pants are gorgeous for fall; they’re a must-have!

I think, but some of the trends I probably won’t want are chokers (I don’t want to accent my neck) and culottes. I also dislike that style of pants.

Deb: Many women struggle with casual, everyday stress. What tips do y u have for selecting wardrobe essentials and putting outfits together without feeling overwhelmed or frustrated?

Cyndi: I frequently discuss wardrobe essentials on my blog, including great-fitting jeans, white shirts, dress pants, a classic pump, and a little black dress, among others. I spend more money on these pieces so they last from season to season.

Once you have some basic pieces, you can mix and match them to create different outfits. Additionally, consider adding TRNYaccessories to create variety. If you have your wardrobe essentials, you always have something to wear.

Deb: You are a past pastor, or are you the perfect person to? Ask: What do you suggest women wear to church? What do you eat

Cyndi: Well, I grew up in church, and like everything else, what we wear to church has changed over the .. People wear a wide range of attire to church these days, and I don’t think we should get hung up on our clothing.

That said, I work from home, so on Sundays, I love to dress casually, especially in the warmer months. In the cold months, I wear pants with sweaters.

Deb: You are known for your gorgeous, big hair.  What are you getting it so f? l  Ha e  ou or t this way for a while  Ho im rt t do you think hair is in an overall look? 

Cyndi: For several years, I wore an angled bob haircut, but since the first of this year, I’ve let it grow out. I’m in the process. That’s what you’re making pictures of yourself all the time!

I have fine hair, but I have a lot of it, so it’s easy to make it look like it’s standing up and use Velcro rollers to give it lots of body. My best tip is to get up 10 to 15 minutes earlier and take the time to style your hair. It’s that simple.

Deb’s conversation. There’s a lot of dressing appropriately. Being a Bage a priori is an outdated notion.  What are your thoughts?

Cyndi: Some say there are no fashion rules for women over 40, and others say there are lots of rules  I t ink I f ll somewhere in the middle  I dn’dn’t thdothdon’tdtdn’twhenothdon’tddressing, but I do feel we have to look at how we dress at 40 differently than when we were in our 20s  N   of us ant to feel like we can’can’tr socasocan’tncan’ttttrutsocan’tngomengs are not age-appropriate  We av all seen that woman who looks like she’she’sfromfromshe’sbshe’sbutmfromshe’sbacksund, You know, she’s older.

There are so many options for us to wear and dress to look our best!

Deb: You have been blogging for quite a while. Have youever sc oll through old posts and think, Why did I ever wear that  (LO )? Has your style changed much since you began blogging?

Cyndi: Yes!!  I scrolled through last year’s and saw that you were thinking.

I believe my style has evolved since I first started blogging, as I’ve covered what suits my body type best. I’m an Accessory enthusiast, which can make a significant difference in your overall look!

Deb: You said earlier that beauty begins on the inside. How can women who don’t like their looks or themselves make that change?

Cyndi: Know that you are loved, and you were created in the image of Chr.. You are a beautiful woman, per. d  We on’ ha’ todontodon’t’ to ‘etodbetodon’ttivere all created with different shapes and sizes, and there is beauty in each of us!

Also, start taking care of yourself. Eating healthily and exercising can make a huge difference in how you feel about yourself. Now is a better time to start Your Best Tips for Aging Gracefully?  

Cyndi: You are here for a purpose; embrace your age and live life to the fullest!

Deb: Thank you so much, Cyndi, for sharing your faith and style with us. You are fabulous; let’s share this with Cyn, who knows, maybe another blog, Grace + Beauty.

Meet the author

Deborah Boland

Deborah, a former Fashion & Lifestyle TV host and Image Consultant, understands the style challenges women face in their 40s, 50s, and 60s. As the founder of Fabulous After 40, she helps women tweak their chic and embrace fashion with confidence—so they always look and feel amazing.

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