10 Ways to Dress Sexy on Valentine’s Day Without Letting it All Hang Out

Are you going out for a romantic Valentine’s Day dinner and want to look sexy without letting it all hang out?

Here are some tips on How to Dress on Valentine’s Day to look alluring at 40, 50, and beyond.

1.  Reveal a little Skin

Don’t make the mistake of wearing a  turtleneck on a date if you want to look sexy. This kind of coverage signal stays away! Showing some skin is youthful and alluring. But notice, I said some.

Trying to look sexy by dressing in skimpy clothes that a twenty-something would wear clubbing will make you look hard, tacky, and worn out. On the other hand, you don’t want to look dowdy. So, where’s the middle ground?

To look sexy, not sleazy or silly, all you need to do is reveal just one part of your body. This will make you look mysterious and alluring. There are many sexy Valentine’s Day dresses, but remember, a sneak peek is better than a striptease!

For example, if you have a nice bust, try a low-cut V-neck top, but don’t try to wear a miniskirt too. Instead, opt for a regular skirt, like a knee-length pencil skirt, and keep all the focus on your neckline. It’s all about balance. You don’t have to wear a top cut down to attract your man’s attention.

A cold shoulder top or a top that is slightly off the shoulder will give you lots of sex appeal. Your shoulders are sexier than you think and are a classy way to look alluring after 40. A slit or zipper on a skirt is also sexy.

2.  Fight the Tight

The famous Hollywood costume designer Edith Head once said: “A dress should be tight enough to show you’re a woman and loose enough to prove you’re a lady.” That’s especially true as we age when too tight, too short, or too much skin can make a woman over 40 look downright desperate. It’s always nice to have a little mystery.

Resist the urge to wear tight clothes if you want to look sexy. Your clothes should be fitted but shouldn’t look or feel tight.  Stop obsessing about size tags. If you’re a size 10, forget about trying to squeeze into a size 6 or even an 8.  Tight clothes make you look bigger. You need to wear things that skim your silhouette and have some stretch. Looking like a stuffed sausage is not sexy at any age.

3.  Embrace Stretch and Drape

Soft, stretchy fabrics will flow over your figure and flatter your shape. Wrap-style dresses made from soft silk or jerseys always look sexy. The gentle wrap detail hugs your waist, lifts your bust, and highlights your curves. This red dress, shown above, is a great example.

4.  Wear a Soft, Sensuous Sweater

A delicate cashmere sweater or soft, feminine knit dress is another way to look alluring. Their beautiful texture makes you look like a fluffy kitten and makes your man want to reach out and snuggle you. Cozy fitted sweaters are another type of sexy Valentine’s clothes that many women don’t instantly think of.

5.  Get Edgy with Leather

With its raw edge, Leather signals power, passion, and excitement. Wear it in moderation, not head to toe, or you will look like a geriatric dominatrix! Colored leather is easier to wear than black and looks sexy and modern. A leather jacket worn over a feminine floral dress is flirty and sexy.

 6. Animal Prints Bring Out the Tiger

Put a little tiger in his tank with a touch of the wild. Any animal print, like an animal print scarf or pair of pumps, is enough to get him roaring.

7.  Shiny and Sparkly is Sexy

Shiny or sparkly fabrics allow you to dress more modestly but still convey a seductive message.

8. Ruffles are Romantic

A slight ruffle is a beautiful way to whisper you’re interested. There’s nothing more feminine than a flirty frill.  A top with a scalloped edge is also very feminine.

9. Slip-On a Sexy Shoe

Heels are always sexy because they elongate your legs and accentuate your wiggle, but they don’t have to be crazy sky-high to be sexy. A small, slim kitten heel is also very inviting.

The vamp of the shoe also makes a difference. The deeper the shoe’s cut, the more skin shows on the top of the foot, and the sexier the shoe. Have you ever heard of toe cleavage? It’s a great way to look alluring in a subtle, grown-up way. It’s a great way to look sexy that you may not have thought of.

10. Try A Smokey Eye

Adjusting your makeup can make you more alluring; just try it and see. The eyes are the mirror of the soul, so why not try that dark, smokey eye you’ve been reading about to add a little mystery? A dark kohl liner and smudging make you look more passionate and playful. Keep the rest of your makeup, lips, and cheeks soft so your eyes take center stage.

For more great tips on how to look lovely on February 14th, check out these other Valentine’s Day Dressing Tips. And remember, confidence is your best accessory!

What will you be wearing this Valentine’s Day? Let me know by commenting below.